If you’ve ever considered planning for your future or helped someone plan for theirs, you’ve probably heard the term “power of attorney.” But do you really know what it is? The terms “power” and “attorney” carry weight but may not mean what you think. In fact, there are many misconceptions about what a power of attorney is and what authority it gives to someone. And no, it doesn’t grant someone a temporary law degree. 

In this article, I’ll address the misconceptions about powers of attorney so you have clarity about what to do if someone appoints you as their power of attorney. Then, armed with this knowledge, you’ll understand your legal responsibilities so you don’t inadvertently make any mistakes or run afoul of the law.

Let’s start with a little background info. If a power of attorney doesn’t confer attorney status, then why is it called that?

What is a Power of Attorney?

Generally speaking, a power of attorney is a legal document granting someone else the authority to act on your behalf regarding your financial life. The term “power of attorney” is a bit of a historical holdover. Originally, powers of attorney were primarily used to appoint lawyers to represent individuals in legal matters. However, over time, the concept has expanded to include appointing someone to act on your behalf for various purposes.

So, while you don’t need to be an attorney to hold a power of attorney, the term has continued due to its historical origins. Granting power of attorney is a way to indicate that an appointed person has the authority to act as your agent or representative, similar to the way an attorney would act on your behalf.

Not everyone wants someone to act on their behalf to manage their financial affairs. In fact, I’d venture that most people don’t. But there are times when it’s necessary in order to preserve your assets, especially if you reach a point in life when you are unable to manage your own financial, legal or healthcare matters, whether from old age, a terrible accident or simply being out of the country for that year-long trip you’ve been planning for years. In each of these cases, it’s possible that if you don’t have someone acting on your behalf, problems could occur. Your financial institutions could charge extra fees on your accounts, a fraudster could drain your accounts and you wouldn’t know it happened, taxes could go unpaid, your property could go into foreclosure, or your credit ruined. So to prevent these horrific outcomes, you want someone else to be able to maintain your financial life on your behalf.

Types of Powers of Attorney

We don’t need to get too much in the weeds here (if you want to get in the weeds, though, read to the end and I’ll show you how to book a call with me), know that there are different types of powers of attorney, each with its own specific purpose. Here are some examples:

General Power of Attorney: This grants the agent broad authority to act on your behalf, including managing your finances and signing legal documents, even if you’re capable of handling your affairs. It becomes effective as soon as you execute the document. When might you want this? Say you travel for work and you and your spouse have decided to refinance your mortgage. You may want your spouse to sign the paperwork on your behalf, rather than waiting for a time you’re back in town.

Springing Power of Attorney: This also grants authority to someone to manage your financial and legal affairs. You can execute the document whenever you want, but it doesn’t kick in until you’re no longer able to make your own decisions.

Durable Power of Attorney: This is a type of general power of attorney that remains in effect even if you become incapacitated. Think of it as the General and Springing Powers of Attorney combined.

Limited Power of Attorney: This grants the agent authority to handle specific tasks only, such as managing your property or making healthcare decisions.

Healthcare Power of Attorney: This grants your named agent authority to make medical decisions on your behalf. 

Even though each of these documents operates differently, they all have one important thing in common: the agent’s power ends as soon as you die. 

What No One Told You About a Power of Attorney: It Ends With Death

You may mistakenly believe that a power of attorney gives someone the right to access your financial accounts indefinitely. However, this isn’t the case. A power of attorney is a temporary arrangement that ends when the person who granted the power dies. What does this mean, exactly?

Let’s say your aging mother can no longer manage her affairs and she executed a Power of Attorney to give you the authority. While she’s living, you can access her bank accounts to make sure all her bills are paid, and paid on time. But as soon as she dies, you no longer have the legal authority to access any of her accounts. If she had a Will or no estate plan at all, you will have to file paperwork with the probate court and wait for the case to make it through the court system until the judge grants you authority again. In the meantime, if you can’t afford to cover her bills along with your own, you may have to make the difficult decision to let her bills go unpaid. If she still has a mortgage on her house, for instance, and you can’t pay her mortgage and yours, too, the bank could begin to fore lose, and you could lose any equity she had. This equity could have been a significant part of your inheritance. 

Going to court can be a frustrating and time-consuming process, and if you haven’t planned appropriately you can suffer negative consequences. But there’s a silver lining. You and your loved ones can avoid probate court, and maintain access to the other’s finances, if you create a Life & Legacy Plan.

The Good News

With some careful planning ahead of time, you can ensure all your bills get paid and your assets are preserved for your loved ones. The way to do that is by creating a Life & Legacy Plan with a living trust. A trust is a legal arrangement that allows you to transfer your assets to a trustee, who manages them for the benefit of your beneficiaries. Importantly, a trust survives your death, so there’s no disruption in the ability for someone to manage your finances after you die.

You may have seen ads on the internet, or maybe your financial advisor has offered to draft a trust for you. And you may have the impression that a trust is a simple document you can get for little to no money. But I want to empower you with some education before deciding to go one of these routes. A trust is a legal document with legal consequences, and even lawyers who’ve gone to law school, passed the bar, and practiced law for awhile find that trusts are more complicated than they first thought. If you draft a trust yourself or with someone who isn’t a lawyer who specializes in this area of the law, you’re taking a big chance with your money and your family. I see these cases often, and usually, the trust isn’t worth the paper it’s written on.

You owe it to yourself and your loved ones to ensure your power of attorney, trust, and related estate planning tools are created correctly and updated over time, and that you understand the benefits and consequences of your plan. 

When you work with me to create a Life & Legacy Plan, I’ll empower you with the education you need so you can make the right choices for yourself and your family, that you fully understand how your plan works, and that your family has my support after you’re gone.

How We Help You Preserve What Matters

Understanding the limitations of a power of attorney and the benefits of a trust is crucial for protecting your hard-earned assets. As your Personal Family Lawyer^Ⓡ Firm, we specialize in helping individuals like you create a Life & Legacy Plan that addresses your unique needs and provides peace of mind, no matter what happens. Once your plan is in place, you can rest easy knowing that your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your property protected.

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Have you jumped on the AI bandwagon yet? If so, you’ve probably used it to make your life easier. AI can be incredibly helpful, especially when the stakes are low. Need a personalized meal plan or an exercise routine? AI can handle that. But when it comes to estate planning, some people use AI for what they believe to be a simple and cost-effective solution. 

The allure of Do-It-Yourself estate planning through AI is strong, especially when you think your situation is simple and straightforward. You may also think you don’t have much money, and so your circumstances aren’t complicated. Both of these beliefs are extremely common – and rarely true.

Here’s the truth: estate planning is not just about creating a set of documents, and it’s almost always more complicated than you think. To do it effectively, it must be personalized to fit you, your family dynamics, and the specific types of assets you have. But unless you’re an expert, you don’t know how your personal circumstances apply to the law and your values – or how your estate plan should be structured to fit the law and your values. AI cannot do any of this. And if you get it wrong, there are legal (as well as financial) consequences. You need a human to guide you; a human who understands you, your family, your assets, your wishes and desires, and how all these things work together with current law. 

So before you’re tempted to use AI for your estate plan, ask yourself the following three questions. Then consider your answers before turning to AI or any other free or cheap legal service. If you’ve already done your estate plan, these questions are important for you, too. 

Question No. 1: What Matters?

First and foremost, who or what matters most to you? When you’re creating a legal plan for what happens if you become incapacitated and when you die, the place to start is by getting clear on what matters. Is it the money you’ve worked hard to earn, or is it the people around you and the relationships you’ve nurtured? Most likely, it’s the people. 

Think about this. How are you affected when a loved one passes away? You’re probably filled with grief, and their absence leaves a void in your life. While their money can ease financial strain, it’s the memories and the love you shared that truly matter (this is their “legacy”). Your loved ones will feel the same way after you’re gone. What will your legacy be? 

Imagine that your family is left to deal with a big legal and financial mess after you’re gone, all because you didn’t create an estate plan or created one that failed. Are you ok with that being your legacy? Does it matter to you that people will need to spend time away from work and their lives to manage your affairs? And what if they ended up fighting or estranged? Does that matter to you? 

What about your assets? Does it matter to you if your estate has to pay unnecessary taxes, or that your assets get lost and turned over to your State’s Department of Unclaimed Property? Or do you care about supporting a cause you believe in, or supporting a family member who needs help? 

When you create a Life & Legacy Plan with our office, you gain the power to influence these outcomes in a way that AI cannot do. But first get clear on what truly matters to you.

Question No. 2: What’s It Worth?

Once you’re clear on what matters, the next question is: what are those things worth? How important is it to ensure your family’s relationships are preserved, for example? How important is it that your assets don’t get used to pay taxes when there’s an option to give them to your loved ones? It’s critical to know not only what’s important, but how important it is, so you know how much time, energy, attention, and money to dedicate to it. 

One of the main reasons people may use AI to draft their estate plans is that they think estate planning is simple. However, estate planning is much more complex than most people realize. Even licensed attorneys who practice estate planning often find themselves overwhelmed by the intricacies of the law, which changes regularly and varies from state to state. AI is a one-size-fits-all approach that doesn’t take into account the complexities. So if you rely on AI, you’re leaving a lot to chance. Is it worth it to you to take a chance on what matters? There is no wrong answer here; it may be yes or it may be no. The key is that you’re being true to yourself.

Question No. 3: Is AI Actually Cheaper and Easier?

And now we’re at the third and final question: is AI or Do-It-Yourself legal really cheaper and easier than working with an expert? If the program makes a mistake in your estate plan and your family ends up in court, embroiled in conflict, with relationships irreparably broken, was it worth the supposed savings? What if your assets were lost to the government, eaten up by unnecessary taxes, or depleted by lawyers’ fees and court costs due to litigation? 

When you weigh the potential costs—financial, emotional, and relational—against the upfront savings you might achieve by using AI, the true worth of those things that matter to you becomes clearer. You see that estate planning is about much more than just money; it’s about protecting the people you love and ensuring your legacy is honored as you intend. 

You and Your Family Deserve More Than a Quick and Cheap Fix

The way to ensure that your plan works when you and your loved ones need it to, and saves you and your family money, is by working with me to create a Life & Legacy Plan. With my Life & Legacy Planning^Ⓡ process, I’ll guide you to get clear on what matters, then together we’ll create a complete plan that honors your wishes and creates a loving legacy at a price that fits your budget. When it comes to something as important as your estate plan, it’s worth taking the time to do it right. Your legacy deserves more than a quick fix—it deserves the thoughtful attention of someone who understands your unique situation and can help you navigate the complexities of the law to achieve your goals.

As a Personal Family Lawyer^Ⓡ Firm, we understand that estate planning isn’t just about the documents you sign or the money you leave behind. It’s about ensuring that the people and things that matter most to you are protected and honored in the way you intend. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your legacy preserved. 

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You’ve worked hard to build your assets and secure your family’s future. Like many responsible adults, you’ve named beneficiaries on your retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and maybe even your banking and investment accounts. It feels good to know you’ve put something in place for your loved ones. 

But here’s the truth many financial advisors, CPA’s, and even other lawyers won’t tell you: relying solely on beneficiary forms for your estate plan can lead to unintended consequences and potential financial disasters for your loved ones. While beneficiary designations serve a purpose, they’re far from a comprehensive estate planning solution. Let’s explore why beneficiary designations alone fall short and the risks you may be unknowingly taking with your family’s financial future. 

The Dangers of Naming Minor Children As Your Beneficiaries 

You love your children and want to ensure they’re cared for if something happens to you. Naming them as beneficiaries on your accounts seems like a straightforward way to achieve this goal. However, this approach can backfire spectacularly when your children are minors.

You create a legal and financial quagmire when you designate a minor as a beneficiary. Financial institutions can’t simply hand over large sums of money to children. Instead, the court will likely appoint a guardian to manage the funds. This process can be time-consuming, expensive, and may not align with your wishes.

Even more concerning is what happens when your child reaches the age of majority, typically 18 or 21, depending on your state. At this point, they gain complete control of the inherited assets. Ask yourself: Is your 18-year-old ready to manage a six or seven-figure life insurance policy? What about your retirement account? For most young adults, the answer is a resounding no.

Imagine your child receiving a windfall at an age when they’re still learning to navigate adult responsibilities. They might make impulsive financial decisions, fall prey to manipulative friends or partners, or simply lack the maturity to handle sudden wealth. By relying solely on beneficiary designations, you’re potentially setting your child up for financial mismanagement or even exploitation.

There is a much better way to ensure your children receive their inheritance at an age (or ages) you deem appropriate: a Life & Legacy Plan. With our Life & Legacy Planning process, we support you in providing for your child’s needs while protecting the assets until they reach a more appropriate age to manage them independently. This approach ensures your hard-earned money supports your child’s long-term well-being rather than funding a brief period of reckless spending. 

When a Beneficiary Dies Before You

Life is unpredictable, and tragedy can strike at any time. While it’s uncomfortable to contemplate, your named beneficiaries may predecease you or die with you in an accident. This scenario can throw your estate into chaos if you’ve relied entirely on beneficiary forms.

When a named beneficiary dies before you, the fate of those assets becomes uncertain. Some accounts may have provisions for contingent beneficiaries, but many people neglect to name backups. In other cases, the asset may revert to your estate, potentially subjecting it to probate – a time-consuming and potentially expensive legal process you likely wanted to avoid by using beneficiary designations in the first place.

The situation becomes even more complex if you and your primary beneficiary die simultaneously or in quick succession. In such cases, determining the order of death can have significant implications for how your assets are distributed. Without a comprehensive estate plan in place, your assets may end up going to unintended recipients or getting tied up in lengthy legal battles.

A Life & Legacy Plan, however, can provide clear instructions for various scenarios, including the death of beneficiaries. By establishing a will or trust, you can create a chain of inheritance that accounts for multiple contingencies, ensuring your assets are distributed according to your wishes regardless of the circumstances.

The Risks of “Set-It-and-Forget-It” Planning

Life is dynamic and filled with changes, both big and small. Your financial situation evolves, relationships shift, and laws change. Yet, all too often, people treat beneficiary designations as a “set it and forget it” solution. This static approach to estate planning can lead to severe problems down the line.

• Consider how much can change over the course of a few years or decades:
• You may divorce or remarry, dramatically altering your family structure.
• Children grow up, and your relationship with them may change.
• Your financial situation could improve significantly, making previous designations inadequate.
• Tax laws and regulations around inherited assets may be revised.
• You might develop new philanthropic interests or want to include charitable giving in your legacy.

If you don’t regularly review and update your beneficiary designations, they may no longer reflect your current wishes or circumstances. It’s not uncommon for people to unknowingly leave substantial assets to ex-spouses or estranged relatives simply because they failed to update their beneficiary forms (in fact, check out my blog for a recent article about this). 

In addition, beneficiary designations don’t allow for the nuanced distribution of assets that many people desire as their wealth grows. You might want to establish conditions for inheritance, protect assets from creditors, or provide for family members with special needs. These complex wishes simply can’t be accommodated through standard beneficiary forms.

On the other hand, a Life & Legacy Plan is designed to adapt to life’s changes. Regular reviews with my office ensure your plan evolves with you, reflecting your current situation and desires. This means your assets go to the people you want in the way you want, and your plan works when you and your loved ones need it.

The Peace of Mind That Comes From Careful Planning

To truly protect your legacy and ensure your wishes are carried out, you need a Life & Legacy Plan, rooted in education about what would happen to you, your family, and your assets if you become incapacitated and when you die. From there, we craft a plan together that reflects your wishes, works when you need it to, and fits within your budget. This might include a will, one or more trusts, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives, in addition to carefully considered beneficiary designations. When we complete your original Life & Legacy Plan, you’ll have peace of mind knowing that it will:

• Protect minor beneficiaries and ensure assets are managed responsibly;
• Provide for multiple contingencies, including the death of beneficiaries;
• Minimize taxes and avoids probate when possible;
• Reflect your values and complex wishes for asset distribution;
• Adapt to changes in your life, finances, and the legal landscape.

Don’t leave your legacy to chance or expose your loved ones to unnecessary financial risks. Your family’s future security is worth the time and financial investment in proper planning. Remember, a truly effective estate plan is a living document that grows and changes with you, providing peace of mind today and security for generations to come. 

Know, too, that if you’ve already created your Life & Legacy Plan with me, keep an eye out for reminders to review and update your plan. If you know that you need to update your plan before we remind you, don’t hesitate to call us immediately.

How We Help You Create the Right Plan For Your Needs

As a Personal Family Lawyer^Ⓡ Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and have a plan that works when you need it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your assets protected. We’ll also touch base regularly to ensure your plan and beneficiary designations stay updated over time, taking the burden off your shoulders to make changes to your plan when needed. After all, you have enough to worry about each day.

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This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

Imagine discovering thousands of dollars that belong to you, only to be told you can’t have it. This frustrating scenario became a reality for a woman named Dale Benerofe, a Georgia resident, when she found $23,000 in unclaimed property from her deceased parents. Her tragic story sheds light on a little-known issue that affects millions of Americans: unclaimed property. 

In this article, you’ll discover what unclaimed property is, how to find it, and why proper estate planning could have ensured Ms. Benerofe received her inheritance. But before we dive into her story, let’s get clear on what unclaimed property is, and how it could impact you and your family. 

What Is Unclaimed Property?

Unclaimed property refers to financial assets that have been abandoned or forgotten for a specific period, typically three to five years. The financial institutions can’t hold on to your money indefinitely. If no one comes forward to claim the assets, the law requires these assets to be turned over to the state for safekeeping. 

Typical forms of unclaimed property include:

• Forgotten checking or savings accounts
• Uncashed dividends or payroll checks
• Abandoned stocks, bonds, or brokerage accounts
• Unclaimed life insurance proceeds
• Refunds and trust distributions
• Forgotten certificates of deposit and annuities

Often, these assets end up unclaimed because someone dies and their loved ones have no idea that the assets exist. And, it’s far more common than you may think, to the tune of approximately $60 billion across the US. 

Consider your personal reality for a minute. If something happened to you tomorrow, would your family know exactly what you have and where to find it? Are you certain they wouldn’t miss something? If you’re like most people, the answer is no, you aren’t certain. What you are likely certain about is that your family would overlook some of your assets if you were to become incapacitated or die tomorrow. And, if they did, those assets could either disappear entirely or end up in your state’s department of “unclaimed property.”According to the National Association of Unclaimed Property Administrators, approximately one in seven Americans has some form of forgotten property owed to them. As of this writing, the total amount of unclaimed property nationwide is between $50 billion and $70 billion. You read that right. Billions of dollars. With a sum that high, it’s easy to see how it’s possible you, too, may have unclaimed property belonging to you.

What the Process Looks Like

Finding out if you have unclaimed property can be an arduous process. Even though you can search online, you’ll go through many steps before (or if) you can receive your money. Here’s what the process looks like:

Step 1—Check multiple states. Conduct a search in your current state of residence and any other states where you’ve lived, worked, or conducted business. 

Step 2 – Search variations of your name. Try different spellings and include your middle name or initial to ensure a thorough search. If your name has changed over the years, you must also check your former names. Again, search all variations of your name in states where you’ve lived, worked, or conducted business.

Step 3 – File a claim. If you find property owed to you, you must file a claim form (usually online) with the state holding your assets. You’ll need to file a form in every state where your assets are held; there is no one-form-to-rule-them-all.

Step 4 – Gather documentation to prove your identity and the identity of your loved one(s). Be prepared to provide documentation to prove your identity and your right to the property. This may include proof of address (at any address you’ve lived), proof of name change, or proof of marriage or divorce. You’ll need to provide similar documentation for your loved ones if you have a claim to their property.

Finally, be patient. Depending on the state and the complexity of your claim, the claim process can take weeks, months, or even years.

A Real-Life Experience and Cautionary Tale

Even if you take the above steps to find the property and make a claim for it, you may not be able to receive the money rightfully owed to you. This is what Dale Benefore’s story can teach us.

Ms. Benefore discovered $23,000 that had belonged to her parents and should have been passed on to her after their deaths. She was surprised and excited because that sum would have made a significant difference to her and her family. So, in May of 2023, she filed a claim for the money with the State of Georgia’s Department of Revenue. As requested by the State, she provided her parents’ death certificates and other documentation proving their deaths. However, when the department requested her father’s driver’s license, she couldn’t provide it. It had been long gone. 

As of this writing – more than a year since Ms. Benefore filed her claim – she’s still fighting for her money. She’s frustrated, saying the process has been time-consuming and disheartening, and that this is not what her parents would have wanted for her. In a news interview, she claimed her “mom would be livid” if she knew what Benefore has been through.

The Easy Way to Ensure Your Assets Aren’t Lost 

There’s an easy solution to this problem and a way to ensure no assets get lost and turned over to the government. It’s called Life & Legacy Planning^Ⓡ, and it’s the type of estate planning I do. A well-crafted Life & Legacy Plan includes a comprehensive inventory of assets that stays updated over time so your loved ones know exactly what you have when something happens to you. If her parents had had a Life & Legacy Plan, Ms. Benefore would have received the $23,000 years ago, without the time and stress of fighting with the State of Georgia. 

My Life & Legacy Planning process starts with education about what would happen to the assets you have, and how you want them distributed after you die. From there, we’ll go through the many options available to you so you can pick the right plan that works for you and your family. 

We work with you throughout the planning process to create a thorough inventory of your assets that’s kept private (and maintained and updated throughout your life) until your family needs it. With a Life & Legacy Plan, you have peace of mind knowing that your loved ones can’t access your money while you’re alive (unless you want them to), but they’ll also be able to get to it easily after you’re gone. No worrying about losing your hard-earned money to the government. 

And if you’ve already created your Life & Legacy Plan with us, you already know how important it is to keep your asset inventory updated, so keep an eye out for our reminders to review and update your plan. However, if you know now that you need to update your plan due to a life change or a change to your assets, don’t hesitate to call us right away.

Ready to Secure Your Assets? We Can Help

There is way too much money in the State Treasury Departments not to take notice. But by reading this article and educating yourself, you’re already on the path to protecting your assets for your loved ones. We can guide you the rest of the way. 

As a Personal Family Lawyer^Ⓡ Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your plan works when your family needs it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your property protected. It’s the last and greatest gift you can give to those you love most. 

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This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

Imagine this: You’re in your twenties, just starting your career. You fill out a form at work, naming your live-in significant other as the beneficiary of your retirement account. You start contributing to your retirement account, and it begins to grow. Fast forward 28 years – you’ve long since ended that relationship, lived a full life, and then died. But you never changed that beneficiary designation, and now that ex-partner is entitled to your million-dollar retirement nest egg while your family is left with nothing. 

Sound far-fetched? It’s not. This is precisely what happened in a high-profile lawsuit involving Margaret Losinger and her former boyfriend, Jeffrey Rolison, and his estate and Proctor and Gamble, the Company he worked for during those 28 years.

Here’s a closer look at this shocking real-life story, the lessons we can learn, and how having a trusted advisor at every stage of life can protect you from making a million-dollar mistake like this or any other mistakes that you just might be overlooking. 

What Happened?

In the 1980s, Jeffrey Rolison dated Margaret Sjostedt, and the two lived together. Rolison worked at a Procter & Gamble (P&G) plant, where he signed up for a profit-sharing and savings plan. In 1987, he listed Sjostedt as the sole beneficiary of his retirement account. The relationship ended two years later, and both moved on. Sjostedt eventually married, taking on the last name Losinger. 

Rolison, however, never updated his beneficiary designation on his retirement plan. In 2015, Rolison passed away at age 59, single and childless, with no will and no guidance on who should inherit his assets. His retirement account, which had grown to $1.15 million, was still designated to Losinger, nee Sjostedt.

Rolison’s brothers, Brian and Richard, were shocked when they learned that Losinger was the beneficiary of Rolison’s retirement account. They believed their brother wouldn’t have intended for his long-ago ex-girlfriend to receive his retirement savings. The brothers filed a lawsuit against P&G and Losinger in 2017, trying to get the money directed to Rolison’s estate. 

On April 29, 2024, an appeals court issued an order, ruling that Losinger was entitled to the money. After fighting for four years, Rolison’s family lost their claim, the million dollars in Rolison’s retirement account, and all the legal fees and court costs invested in the fight. Because we have no doubt you wouldn’t want this to happen to your family, read on … 

Why Even “Simple Estates” Require Trusted Guidance

Before we go on, I’ll clarify what estate planning is, how beneficiary accounts factor in and why you likely need the guidance of a trusted advisor, even if you think you don’t have an estate, your estate is “simple” or you don’t really need an estate plan. 

What estate planning is. Many people consider estate planning something only needed by the wealthy or the elderly. As you can see from this case, that’s just not true. Rolison wasn’t wealthy when he chose to name Losinger as the beneficiary of his retirement account. And he probably wasn’t wealthy when they broke up. Nevertheless, not having an estate plan or the trusted guidance he would have needed to know what he needed, he ended up making his ex-girlfriend a wealthy woman and cost his siblings quite a lot of time and money in the process.

At the most basic level, estate planning is about ensuring all of your assets pass to the people you want, in the way you want, with the right guidance and support to ensure that happens with the least effort, cost and mess possible. And, it’s about ensuring that if you become incapacitated, your wishes are known, honored and able to be followed with the least amount of cost and most amount of privacy possible. 

Most importantly, estate planning is about your choices and your freedom. So, how important is it to you that you have a say in what happens to you, your hard-earned assets, and your loved ones when the time comes? If it’s important, you need an estate plan. It’s truly as simple as that. Otherwise, the government gets to decide on your behalf. When you create an estate plan, your wishes override the government’s plan for you and your loved ones. 

How Beneficiary-Designated Accounts Factor Into Your Estate Plan

Beneficiary-designated accounts – like retirement accounts or life insurance – are part of your estate plan. Beneficiary designations override the government’s plan for you, and they also override whatever you might have written in your will or trust, if you created one. 

From the case I shared here, we learn that Rolison did not have a will, but it would not have made a difference even if he had. Beneficiary designations come before any will or trust, even if you made the designations years ago. 

Beneficiary forms are powerful documents. They alone determine who gets your retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and bank accounts, often taking precedence over your will. If you filled out a beneficiary form years ago and haven’t updated it, the person named on that form will likely receive the assets, regardless of your current wishes. So the biggest takeaway from the Rolison/Losinger story is that beneficiary accounts are an integral part of your estate plan and should be reviewed on a regular basis. This is why we include a review of all of your accounts, your beneficiary designations and an inventory of all of your assets – plus we have updating programs for ongoing review – in all of our Life & Legacy Plans.

Why You Need Regular Reviews of Your Accounts and Beneficiary Designations

Rolison’s case highlights the fact that it’s easy to forget about your beneficiary designations, especially if they were filled out years ago. However, the case also tells us that neglecting to update your accounts can lead to unintended consequences and legal battles for your loved ones. 

In Rolison’s case, his brothers argued that P&G failed to adequately inform him about his beneficiary designation. They claimed the company provided insufficient warnings when it changed service providers and in its monthly statements. However, most companies do not remind you to review and update your beneficiary accounts. When was the last time your bank reminded you to review the beneficiary designations on your checking account (if ever)? What about your life insurance company? And if not, have you taken it upon yourself to check your beneficiary designations regularly? Your life is busy enough. Is this a priority? 

If not, it should be. In its decision, the court stated that it ruled in favor of P&G and Losinger because the responsibility for keeping beneficiary information current rests on the individual. 

How Accountability Makes All the Difference

Your life is busy. Sometimes, just making it through the day with all your responsibilities can be a challenge, right? Probably the last thing on your mind is planning for your death and incapacity. And maybe the second-to-last thing is reviewing and updating your beneficiary accounts. You’re probably thinking you can do it later.

But the truth is this: “later” could be tomorrow. We all know we will die; we just don’t know when. Death doesn’t care about your age or how busy you are. I’m not saying this to scare you. It’s a fact, and I want you to be prepared so that what happened to the Rolison family won’t happen to yours. Death doesn’t have to be scary. When you plan for it, you’ll find that you can live your life with more purpose and peace of mind, knowing you’ve done the right thing for your loved ones. 

If this sounds good to you, know that having a trusted advisor who is there for you throughout your lifetime can make all the difference. That’s why my Life & Legacy Planning^Ⓡ process includes regular check-ins and reviews of your plan, including your beneficiary accounts. The best part is you never have to think about it on your own! Unlike most lawyers who do estate planning, I will remind you on a regular basis to update your plan – and keep you accountable for doing so. I’ll also be there for you as life changes so your plan reflects your current wishes. Together, we’ll make sure your family inherits your accounts, not an ex-girlfriend you dated 40 years ago. 

We Do the Heavy Lifting So You Don’t Have To 

When it comes to planning for your death and incapacity, we do the heavy lifting for you, freeing you to concentrate on your responsibilities to your family, your work, and yourself. As a Personal Family Lawyer^Ⓡ Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and that your plan works when you need it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, your property protected, and your plan updated throughout your lifetime. 

And if you’ve already created your Life & Legacy Plan with us, keep an eye out for our reminders to review and update your plan. If you know now that you need to update your plan due to a life change, don’t hesitate to call us right away.

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This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.