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  • Celebrity Estate Plans Series Part 2 of 4: Vanilla Ice Has Thoughts

    Celebrity Estate Plans Series Part 2 of 4: Vanilla Ice Has Thoughts

    This week, we’re continuing to look at the lives of 4 celebrities and how they’re preparing for the inevitable (or didn’t!). Last week, we examined Michael Jackson’s planning and the holes in his plan that resulted in his family being embroiled in court and conflict for 15 years and counting (if you missed it, go back and check it out!). In this second article of our 4-part celebrity series, Vanilla Ice chimes in with his estate planning experience, advice, and lessons learned on a video he posted to his YouTube channel. He has a lot to say! I’ll share some comments users posted with their takeaways, and I’ll pull out a few lessons that we can learn, too.

    Let’s start with a topic everyone no one likes to talk about: taxes. 

    Vanilla Ice (Really) Hates Estate Taxes

    Vanilla Ice shares the story of his buddy Mark, whose parents owned a sprawling property in Palm Beach, Florida. When they passed, Mark and his siblings sold the estate, expecting to be set for life. But estate taxes ended up taking over 80% of their profit. Ouch.

    Vanilla Ice calls this tax a “generational wealth killer,” and he’s not wrong. Estate taxes can sneak up and bite a huge chunk out of your wealth. And the thing is, with a proper estate plan, this doesn’t have to happen! The key is to educate yourself. Knowing what you’re up against helps you plan smarter so that more of your hard-earned assets reach your heirs. 

    In the comments section of the video, one user wrote that he agrees. He says, “as a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), I love Rob’s recommendation to gain an understanding of taxes. We spend more on taxes than everything else in life.”

    I agree too! I believe that education is the most important part of estate planning. That’s why my planning process begins with a Life & Legacy Planning Session, where you’ll get the plain and simple education you need to make wise decisions about your planning, including how to keep your family out of court and out of conflict, minimize taxes, and ultimately create a plan that works for you and the people you love, when they need it. 

    So, first lesson: if you suspect your family could pay estate taxes at the time of your death, don’t wait to plan. There’s way too much at stake. Give us a call, and let’s get you in the know about the kind of planning you want and need for yourself, and the people you love. . 

    Let’s talk life insurance next. 

    Vanilla Ice Thinks Life Insurance is Cool

    (“Ice” and “cool” – get it? Sorry, couldn’t resist.) 

    Life insurance isn’t just for covering funeral costs – it’s a secret weapon in estate planning. Vanilla Ice suggests “maxing out your life insurance” to pass on as much money to your kids as you can. What makes life insurance “cool” is that death benefits aren’t subject to income tax, meaning your heirs can get more bang for your buck than if you were investing the money you’d put into life insurance premiums into just about any other asset class. 

    It’s worth considering what Vanilla Ice suggests here. When you take out a life insurance policy, the payout can cover any necessary taxes, probate fees, and debts, ensuring your heirs receive the lion’s share of your assets. Life insurance can help with short-term needs, like paying off a mortgage, or it can serve your family’s long-term needs, like maintaining the lifestyle to which they’re accustomed.

    When you get educated via our Life & Legacy Planning process, we’ll look at your life insurance, whether you have the right amount and the right type, and ensure you are 100% clear on what it might mean to “max out your life insurance” and if you really should do that. We’ll consider whether you need more insurance, less insurance, or a different kind of insurance altogether based on your family dynamics, assets, and what you want for the people you love after you are gone.

    Second lesson: If you want to be cool, make the right type and kind of life insurance part of your planning. 

    Ice Says Trusts Are Not Just for the Rich and Famous (and He’s Right!)

    Trusts might sound like something only the super-wealthy need, but they’re a smart tool for anyone looking to protect their assets. One commenter agreed, saying he’s learned this from experience, “It isn’t just millionaires that need planning. I’ve seen families torn apart fighting over $100,000 or less. Siblings not speaking to each other again over $50,000.”

    Ice mentions irrevocable trusts specifically. These types of trusts let you transfer assets to a beneficiary while removing the assets from your taxable estate, ensuring your assets aren’t subject to estate taxes. Any assets placed in an irrevocable trust are also protected from legal judgments and creditors IF you do it the right way and in the right jurisdiction. Don’t go at this one alone. But if it’s something you are interested in, contact us and let’s talk. In the video, Ice jokes about putting his classic car collection into a trust and setting rules, such as his kids can lease but not sell the cars. This kind of protection ensures your heirs benefit from, but don’t squander, the assets. In other words, even after death, you get to determine how your assets will be used. And if you want to protect them for future generations, you can. This is one way to create generational wealth. 

    So now we’re up to our third lesson: If you want to protect and preserve your assets for generations, take Vanilla Ice’s advice and utilize trusts in your planning. 

    Ice Has Some Not-So-Nice Things to Say About Lawyers 

    While trusts can undoubtedly be a useful tool in estate planning, Ice has some, let’s say, not-so-nice things to say about some lawyers who draft trusts for their clients. He calls them “vultures.” Yikes. One commenter couldn’t resist throwing in a lawyer joke, saying, “What do you call a 1,000 lawyers @ the bottom of the sea? A good start.”

    Believe me, I’ve heard all the lawyer jokes out there, and I’ll say this. They wouldn’t be “jokes” if people didn’t find them funny. And people find them funny because there’s some truth in them. Sadly, lots of people have had a bad experience with a lawyer in the past.

    Ice aptly describes what a bad experience looks like: the lawyer confusing you by using complex language and legal concepts, selling you documents you don’t really need, and charging way too much for what the lawyer offers. He warns against blindly trusting lawyers like this. 

    And, he’s right. 

    It is exactly why I have the processes in place that I have. My Life & Legacy Planning process has been developed precisely to ensure you are well-counseled to understand all the decisions you are making, we never put in place documents that we know are likely to fail, and that you choose your own fees through our education process. 

    Our education first process is designed so you understand enough about how the law works in your unique situation so that you can make wise choices and be your own best advisor first and foremost. Our pricing model is all flat fee, agreed to in advance, no gimmicks, no surprises, and all chosen by you. No tricking you with fancy legal language and then charging you an arm and a leg for something you don’t need – or even want.

    This brings us to our fourth and final lesson: hire a lawyer you can trust to be there for you and your family, for life and beyond.

    Put Vanilla Ice’s Advice Into Action Today

    Vanilla Ice’s video brings forward lessons everyone can benefit from. By understanding your options, including how taxes and life insurance impact your family and assets specifically, and considering the use of well-counseled trusts, you can safeguard your assets and ensure they benefit your loved ones the way you want. To quote his classic hit, “Ice Ice Baby,” ‘Anything less than the best is a felony.’ Take these lessons from Vanilla Ice to heart, and start building a solid estate plan today. Your future generations will thank you for it. 

    As a Personal Family Lawyer Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan rooted in education and clarity, so your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and your assets are protected. And once we’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing you’ve done the right things for the people you love most—word to your mother.

    Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more:

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    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

  • Celebrity Estate Plans Series Part 1 of 4: Michael Jackson 

    Celebrity Estate Plans Series Part 1 of 4: Michael Jackson 

    What is it about celebrities that always draws us in? For whatever reason, we just can’t resist a good, juicy celebrity story. Maybe it’s because we can relate in some way, or maybe we feel like we can’t relate and that’s what makes celebrities interesting. Their lives always seem attractive but somehow… just out of reach. 

    So for the next few weeks, we’re going to look at the lives of 4 celebrities and see what we can learn from their stories. I think you’ll be surprised to learn that you have more in common with these folks than you thought (even if you don’t also have your own private jet).

    This week, we’re going to turn the spotlight on Michael Jackson. Even if you aren’t old enough to “Remember the Time” when Michael Jackson was dominating the charts, by the end of this article, you’ll see that he left holes in his estate plan that we can learn from.

    Before we get started, however, I want to address the elephant in the room: many people, maybe you’re included, find Michael Jackson’s personal life and choices… concerning. That is completely understandable. The intent of this piece is not to defend or promote him in any way. Rather, this article’s focus is on his family and what they’ve endured in the court system for the last 15 years.

    Now, let’s dive in and learn how you can avoid the same fate for your loved ones. 

    It’s As Easy as “ABC” (and 1, 2, 3)

    Before we take a look at the specifics of Michael Jackson’s story, let’s dispel a myth about estate planning: That it’s only for the rich or philanthropic. You do not need to be rich, philanthropic, or famous to need estate planning. You need estate planning if you own anything – even a bank account – and have people in your life you love. It’s as simple as that (dare I say it’s as simple as “ABC” and 1,2,3?). So as you think about your own estate planning, it’s time to “Beat It” past the misconceptions so you’re empowered to do the right thing by your loved ones. 

    So what happened in Michael Jackson’s case? He had an estate plan that included a Will, and the Will established trusts for his mother, Katherine, and his three children, Paris, Prince, and Bigi. 

    Let’s stop right there because there’s already an increased potential for conflict with this setup.

    When your assets pass via “Will” (instead of via Trust), your assets must go through a court process called probate, which, my mentor says, is a “lawsuit you file against yourself with your money for the benefit of your creditors.” Subjecting your assets and your family to probate can result in a long, time-consuming, and messy court process that can be unnecessarily expensive to resolve. Plus, the court process is entirely public, meaning anyone can access the records and see information about your assets and family that you would rather keep private. 

    A trust, on the other hand, bypasses the court process altogether, as long as your assets are owned in the name of the trust when you become incapacitated, or when you die. If your assets are properly transferred and retitled into the trust (this is called “funding” the trust), your estate can be administered privately and often takes less time than the court process does. A trust can be set up and funded while you’re alive, thereby avoiding probate, or it can be a part of your Will. When it’s part of your Will, like in MJ’s case, it isn’t established or funded until after the court process has played out. So if you’re trying to keep your family from going through the court process, putting a trust in your Will completely defeats the purpose.

    Here’s what we’ve learned so far: if your intent is to keep your loved ones out of court and conflict, creating a Will alone is a “Bad” choice. 

    Peace of Mind For the “Man in the Mirror” 

    Since Michael Jackson’s assets were not owned in a trust, and instead his assets needed to pass via Will, there have been ongoing legal matters in court, which still aren’t resolved 15 years (yes, you read that right) after his death. Currently, MJ’s family is embroiled in a dispute with the IRS, and so the trusts he intended to be created for his mother and children remain unfunded, and therefore, some of his assets cannot be transferred to them, in the way it seems he intended. It’s also highly probable that the legal disputes continue to cost the estate a lot of money. That’s money that would have gone to his mother and children otherwise. 

    To make sure the people you love receive your assets in the way you want, I cannot underscore the importance of education and intent. This is exactly why my Life & Legacy Planning process begins with educating you first. The first time we meet, I will show you exactly what will happen to your family and your assets after your death, based on your current plan (or the state’s plan for you, if you don’t have a plan). From there, I help you make intentional decisions about what’s right for you and your loved ones, based on your desires, your assets, your family dynamics, and your budget. 

    Taxes – A Potentially “Dangerous” Situation! 

    The Jackson estate’s ongoing battle with the IRS also serves as a stark reminder of the tax implications that can affect your plan and your loved ones. When it comes to taxes, you can’t think in terms of “Black or White” – there are many shades of gray to consider. If you intend to avoid as many taxes as possible, you don’t want to cut corners by either doing your estate planning cheaply or on your own. That could be “Dangerous!” I can help you create a comprehensive plan that minimizes taxes as much as possible, potentially saving you and your family (lots of) money. 

    Speaking of saving money, taxes can significantly reduce the value of what you pass on to your heirs, which has a direct impact on your loved ones. To minimize this impact, together you and I will explore different strategies such as gifting assets during your lifetime, establishing irrevocable trusts, or using life insurance policies to cover potential tax liabilities. 

    So our next lesson from Michael Jackson’s story is: when it comes to saving money on taxes, the stakes are too high to go at it alone. Work with a professional who can advise you properly. We aren’t clear why Michael Jackson didn’t get the kind of support necessary to minimize taxes and protect his estate from a long drawn-out court process, but what we do know for sure is that we can help you and your loved ones.

    Avoiding the “Thriller” of Legal Disputes

    The Jackson case also highlights the importance of choosing the right representatives for your estate. These are the people who handle your affairs after you’re gone (they’re called “executors” if there’s a Will or “trustees” if there’s a Trust). MJ’s family members have criticized the representatives for the way they’ve managed the estate. In particular, Katherine Jackson has alleged that the executors have been too frugal and are holding onto assets to maintain control. 

    There’s always a possibility of conflict between your representatives and your loved ones, even if you aren’t famous and don’t have millions of dollars to fight over. So to help minimize the potential, we recommend you communicate your intentions to your representatives and to your loved ones during your lifetime. Consider holding a meeting so everyone knows what your wishes are and understands the intent behind your decisions. You may not be able to “Heal the World” on your own, but you can promote healing within your own family and prevent future conflict by opening the lines of communication now. We often facilitate these meetings for our clients.

    Also, know that you don’t have to choose family members to be your representatives – even if you feel pressured to do so. If you aren’t sure who the “right people” are, think about people you know who are not only trustworthy but also capable of handling complex financial and legal matters. There’s also the option of choosing a professional representative, as Michael Jackson did, who might be more appropriate for your situation. When you work with us, we’ll be there to “Rock With You” through all the different scenarios that could arise, so you can then choose the right people for your unique circumstances. 

    Our two final lessons from Michael Jackson’s story are these: 1) Communicate your wishes openly to your representatives and your family, and 2) Choose the right people to act for you when you no longer can. 

    By learning from the challenges faced by Michael Jackson’s family, you can ward off the possibility of a similar outcome for your loved ones. Your careful planning today can pave the way for a smoother transition of your assets in the future, ensuring that you are able to support your family after you’re gone, rather than creating a mess for them to handle without you. I’m here to serve you and help you ensure your estate doesn’t become a “Thriller” of legal battles, but instead a harmonious transition that would make even the King of Pop proud.

    “You Are Not Alone” – We’re Here for You

    It’s “Human Nature ” to want to avoid thinking about your death, much less plan for it. We get it. But when we face our mortality, we’re able to live a more fulfilling life. The good news is that you don’t have to deal with it alone. We’re here to support you every step of the way. 

    As a Personal Family Lawyer Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan from a place of education and intention, so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict. And once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your legacy preserved. 

    Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more:

    Free 15-min Consult

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

  • Value Freedom? Here’s Why an Estate Plan Is Your Declaration of Independence

    Value Freedom? Here’s Why an Estate Plan Is Your Declaration of Independence

    As you celebrate the Fourth of July and all it represents – freedom, independence, and the pursuit of happiness – take pride in the ultimate American liberty: the right to decide your own affairs, even after death or in the event of incapacity. An estate plan, specifically a Life & Legacy Plan, is the way to express your liberty. It’s your personal Declaration of Independence. I know; it sounds weird. How in the world can an estate plan give me freedom?

    Here’s how: Creating a Life & Legacy Plan (a unique estate planning process I use in my firm) preserves your self-determination, protects your family, grows your wealth, and defines your legacy on your own terms. Just as the Founding Fathers declared freedom from the British crown over two centuries ago, your Life & Legacy Plan declares your autonomy from the courts, state laws, and conflicting viewpoints that could unravel your final intentions. Read on to find out how.

    You Have a Plan: It Just May Not Be What You Want

    The first thing to know is that you already have a plan for what happens in the event you become incapacitated or when you die. You may not know what that plan is, and you may not like what that plan is! You see, the government has created a plan for you, without your input. Or, you may have already created your own plan, but didn’t really understand the choices you made, haven’t updated it, or may not even own your assets in a way that has them covered by your plan.

    When you have a Life & Legacy Plan, you get to override the government’s plan for you with your choices. YOU get to decide exactly how you want your assets collected and distributed – whether that’s providing for certain loved ones over others, leaving assets to chosen family members, who aren’t related by blood or marriage, but who have become close kin to you by choice, or donating portions to charitable causes near and dear to your heart. 

    With a Life & Legacy Plan in place, you maintain that plan throughout your lifetime, so as your assets change, your life changes, and the law changes, so does your plan. It grows with you, rather than becomes stale and outdated over time. Because you aren’t a stagnant human. You are evolving, changing and likely growing. Your plan needs to evolve, change and grow along with you, otherwise it’s not even worth the paper it’s written on.

    The Liberation of Making Your Decisions With Eyes Wide Open

    Planning for incapacity or death is the equivalent of planning for your best possible life, and for the best possible life of the people you love. It may not have ever been presented to you that way, but think about it – if you accept that you are going to die one day, and you may become incapacitated first, and you want your family and assets to be cared for in a certain way when those things happen, wouldn’t that naturally inform choices you’ll make around the allocation of your resources throughout your life? 

    We call this “eyes wide open” decision-making, and it leads to the most optimal use and allocation of your resources throughout your life, and makes things as easy as possible for the people you love, in the event of your incapacity or death. For example, when you consider how you want to be cared for in the event of your incapacity, and document those choices, you can then ensure you have the necessary close personal relationships to deliver on your desires, as well as the required financial means to provide for yourself or the people who will care for you (or your kids). Otherwise, you are just leaving it up to happenstance … or a judge … and we call that “eyes squeezed shut/pretend it’s not going to occur” decision-making, and it’s not responsible, mature or kind to yourself or the people you love.

    The Power to Choose

    The most mature, adult and loving thing you can do for yourself and the people you love is to clarify well in advance how you want to be cared for, if you cannot care for yourself, who should make decisions for you, and how you want those decisions to be made. In addition, it’s critical to provide a roadmap for the people you love, so they know what you have, where it is and how to find it.

    Establishing a Life & Legacy Plan does all of that, and it doesn’t matter how much or how little you have because your loved ones will have to deal with it, whether it’s a little or a lot — and your choices while you are living, healthy and clear empowers them and minimizes their outlay of time, energy and attention they may not have, especially during a time of grief. With a Life & Legacy Plan we help you create, you can also account for special circumstances like children or spouses from previous marriages, loved ones with disabilities, or family members you intentionally want to omit. No more worries about assets getting unfairly split or ending up in the wrong hands.

    Finally, holding a family meeting can unite your loved ones around a shared understanding of your intentions rather than driving them apart through conflicts and differing interpretations of your wishes. Your Life & Legacy Plan gives you the power to choose to create more ease for yourself and the people you love. 

    A Declaration of How You Want to Be Remembered

    Your Life & Legacy Plan represents your final declaration of the values and life experiences you’ll impart to loved ones and the world at large. Use this opportunity to put your final stamp on how you want your individuality and life’s purpose remembered, rather than leaving it up to chance, or leaving a legacy of mess and drama. 

    All of our plans include a Life & Legacy recording that guides you to express your deepest hopes, guiding wisdom, and ethical frameworks acquired over decades of successes, struggles, and personal growth. You will share cherished stories, meaningful quotes, and carefully-cultivated philosophies that give your life meaning. The Life & Legacy recording is the most meaningful gift your family will cherish and carry into future generations.

    So, this Independence Day, make your own personal declaration of freedom by establishing your own comprehensive Life & Legacy Plan. Take pride in exercising your liberties to the fullest by removing all uncertainties over your final affairs and ensuring your true wishes will be honored. 

    Let Us Be Your Life & Legacy Planning Partner

    As a Personal Family Lawyer Firm, Life & Legacy Planning is all we do. We work with you to craft a plan on your terms, taking into account what you want, not what someone else has decided for you. And once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your legacy preserved.

    Contact us to learn more about how we help you exercise freedom over your own choices. Click here to schedule a consultation:

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    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

  • The Surprising Connection Between Men’s Health and Estate Planning

    The Surprising Connection Between Men’s Health and Estate Planning

    June marks Men’s Health Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about health issues predominantly affecting men and encouraging the early detection and treatment of disease among men and boys. So this month, let’s turn the focus to you, gentlemen. You already know that taking care of your health allows you to prolong your life and enhance your quality of life. But have you given serious thought to how your health directly impacts your future? Your legacy? The ones you love the most? 

    What we’re talking about here is estate planning, and it’s every bit as important as your physical health. I know, I know, it could sound weird to equate health with estate planning, but hear me out. By the end of the article, the connection will be clear. 

    The Link Between Your Health and Estate Planning

    Estate planning often brings to mind wills, trusts, and other legal paperwork, and in fact, that’s maybe what you initially thought when you read the title of this article. However, I want to challenge that assumption with this: the documents are merely the byproduct of estate planning. 

    You may be thinking, How are documents the “byproduct” of estate planning? Here’s what I mean.

    Estate planning is all about ensuring your wishes are honored if you become incapacitated so you can live and die with dignity. It’s also about ensuring that the people you love most will know you loved them, that they’re cared for when you’re gone in a way you cared for them while you lived, and that you’ve removed all the pain, potential conflict and expense they will have to endure if you have no plan in place. Estate planning supports your loved ones to grieve in peace rather than face a long, expensive court process or confusion regarding how to find your assets or understand what to do when you are gone. 

    Estate planning is also about leaving a legacy. Contrary to what you may be thinking – that legacy is not only related to money and reserved for the wealthy and philanthropic – legacy is about the mark you make on those you hold most dear. It’s about defining your humanity and what you stood for. Putting your affairs in order now so your loved ones don’t have to deal with a mess later is a legacy, too. Making it clear that you loved your family is a legacy. 

    What about health? How does your health connect with estate planning?

    Your health plays a significant role in shaping your preparations for the future in general, and how you structure your estate plan in particular. I want to first say that while “health” can refer to mental health, emotional health and spiritual health, and all are important, we’ll focus on physical health here. 

    So let’s take a look at the direct link between your physical health and estate planning. You’ll come to see that by prioritizing your physical health, you can not only enjoy life with more ease, but also avoid complications in your estate planning. 

    Longevity and Retirement Savings. Your physical health has a direct impact on your lifespan, which in turn affects how long your retirement savings need to last. If you maintain good physical health, you’re likely to live longer (yay!) and will need a more extensive plan regarding your assets, for your longer life.

    Healthcare Decisions. Consider the potential need for long-term care. Alzheimer’s or dementia could require long-term care solutions that you may or may not choose. In your estate plan, it’s crucial to not only make sure you’re financially covered for these possibilities, but to also ensure you’ve made it clear how you want to be cared for, if you cannot make decisions for yourself. There comes a point in time at which it’s too late for you to make your wishes known, and given that you are reading this … now is the time to document what you would choose, if you could not choose.

    This is why you need a healthcare power of attorney or a living will in your plan. These are documents that designate the person (or people) you choose to make medical decisions on your behalf if you’re unable to do so. Your designated healthcare agent (or agents) will not only ensure that your healthcare preferences are respected but will also align your medical treatment with your personal wishes. Without these documents in place, a judge (i.e., a complete stranger) could appoint someone to act on your behalf. Maybe even someone you don’t trust or wouldn’t want making decisions for you. Or, in a worst case scenario, a judge could even appoint a professional conservator who could drain your estate financially.

    Disability and Its Impact. Poor health can sometimes lead to disability, affecting your ability to manage your own affairs. Including a disability clause in your estate plan ensures that your assets are managed according to your wishes, even if you’re not able to oversee them personally. A revocable living trust can be particularly useful here, as it allows your chosen person or entity to manage your affairs without the need for court intervention. Again, without a plan in place, a judge will make decisions for you, and those decisions may not be what you want.

    Having gone through the potential consequences of not prioritizing your physical health and its direct link to your estate planning, let’s turn to practical steps you can take now to make sure you and your family don’t have to experience any negative consequences.

    Practical Steps to Integrate Health and Estate Planning

    Unless you’re already incapacitated and can’t make decisions for yourself, know that it’s not too late to take action. It’s not too early, either. Death and incapacity don’t discriminate based on age. When you face that fact, and then plan accordingly, you can live life with more ease, more joy, and less stress. Truly.

    So if you haven’t planned for the future, here are some practical steps you can take now:

    Schedule Regular Check-Ups. It may seem obvious, but regular medical examinations are vital. They not only help in detecting illnesses early but also provide a clear picture of your health, which, as we’ve discussed above, is crucial for accurate estate planning. If you discover a new health condition, you can plan accordingly when you’ve caught it in time. If not, it could be too late to get your plan in place.

    Update Your Estate Plan Regularly: As your health changes, so should your estate plan. Make it a habit to review and update your plan on a regular basis or whenever there is a significant change in your health. As a Personal Family Lawyer®, I can not only help you get your initial plan in place, but with a unique process I use called Life & Legacy Planning®, I will always include a free review of your plan at least every three years. This ensures your plan works because it will be updated as your health, life and assets change over time. Without updates, your plan will fail, sending your family to court and increasing the probability of conflict. 

    Discuss Your Plans Openly: Talk with your family about your healthcare wishes and how they relate to your estate plan. Taking this courageous, and maybe uncomfortable, step, makes a big difference when it comes to decreasing the likelihood of conflict in your family. Make sure to discuss your preferences for end-of-life care, which can create conflict in your family if you haven’t clarified your wishes. 

    Consult A Professional Who Has Your Best Interests in Mind: I approach estate planning from a place of heart, always keeping your best interests, and by extension, your loved ones’ best interests, in mind. I not only help you to get your plan in place, but also help you keep your family out of court and conflict so your legacy is one of love and care. I can also help you navigate difficult discussions with your family about your wishes, so you can feel confident knowing you’ve done all you can to preserve the family bonds.

    How We Support You and Your Loved Ones

    As a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm, we recognize the integral connection between your physical health and your estate planning needs. Our commitment goes beyond mere legal documentation; we aim to ensure your life’s work and values are preserved with dignity and clarity. By understanding the specific challenges and opportunities that arise from your health, we tailor estate plans that not only protect your assets but also your well-being and your family’s future. 

    This Men’s Health Month, take a proactive step toward safeguarding your legacy and enhancing your peace of mind. Contact us to learn how our Life & Legacy Planning® process can align your health priorities with your estate planning goals. Click here to schedule a 15-minute consultation to discuss your next best steps:

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    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session™, during which you will get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life & Legacy Planning Session™.

  • The Dark Side of the Internet: Protect Yourself From Online Scams and Digital Attacks

    The Dark Side of the Internet: Protect Yourself From Online Scams and Digital Attacks

    In the digital age, online scams and cyber attacks are becoming more frequent, posing risks to not only everyday users but also to lawyers who manage clients’ sensitive information. But there’s no need to fear if you take measures to keep your data safe. And if (when?) you’re working with a lawyer, you should also know what actions lawyers take to protect your data. Taking these two approaches, let’s discuss how you can safeguard yourself from these digital attackers and how lawyers ensure their clients’ data is protected from the bad guys.

    Since this article is being published around “Star Wars Day” (i.e., May 4th, as in “May the fourth (Force) be with you”), I’ll refer to the bad guys as the “Dark Side” just for fun.

    7 Tips to Protect Yourself From the Dark Side

    Navigating the internet safely requires vigilance and knowledge about potential threats, even as the Dark Side constantly comes up with online scams and attacks designed to steal personal information or harm your devices. Here are some essential steps to protect yourself from these cyber threats and ensure your digital experience remains secure.

    1. Verify who you’re interacting with and confirm the identity of anyone asking for personal details online. Scammers often pretend to be from a trusted company. If you receive an email or message that looks suspicious, or even a little off, contact the company directly using information from their official website. 
    1. Create strong passwords. This is crucial. Your passwords should be long, unique, and include a combination of letters, numbers, and symbols. Avoid using common words or sequences that can be easily guessed. Additionally, use different passwords for different sites. A password manager can help you generate and manage secure passwords.
    1. Don’t click on links or attachments without knowing who the sender is. Clicking on links or downloading attachments from unknown sources can be dangerous. These can lead to fake websites designed to steal your information or install malware on your device. When in doubt, don’t click, especially when links come to you via text. Never, ever click a link sent to you via text without verifying that the sender is a real friend or company you’re doing business with.
    1. Keep your software and devices updated. Regular updates help fix security vulnerabilities. Use antivirus software to protect against malware and other threats.
    1. Educate yourself about the types of scams that exist, such as phishing emails that ask for personal information or offer too-good-to-be-true deals. Being aware is your first line of defense.
    1. If you get a call from a bank, a government agency, or even from a child or grandchild asking for money or gift cards for any reason, or access to your computer, tell the caller you’ll call them back. Hang up and call your child or grandchild directly, OR the bank or government agency and find out if they were actually calling you. As an added measure, with your family, have a family “code phrase” that must be spoken out loud in the event of an emergency, such as “blackie is a brown dog” or something unique that only your family would know.
    1. MOST IMPORTANT: Never give anyone remote access to your computer, unless it is from a tech support company you engaged with proactively, meaning you called the tech support line on the company’s website directly and you initiated the request for support. Scammers will pretend they are from Coinbase or your bank and tell you they need to access your computer to resolve your account problem. Don’t fall for it.

    It’s also important to note here that the elderly are the most targeted group for online scammers. So if your parents fall into this age group, pass along this article to them so they’re armed with knowledge to protect themselves.

    The Dark Side Won This Time, Now What?

    Even after taking all these measures, sometimes the bad guys get away with it and scam you or a loved one. If you think you’ve fallen victim to a scam, it’s important to act quickly. Immediately inform your bank or relevant service provider if you’ve shared any sensitive information. They can take steps to protect your account. You should also update your passwords right away, especially if you believe they may have been compromised. Again, ensure your new passwords are strong and unique. You may also want to report the scam to the alleged sender, so they know someone is impersonating them and can take protective measures themselves. And if applicable, report the scam to the relevant online platform, or even the local police, consumer protection agencies, or internet crime complaint centers.

    Rest Easy Knowing We Have Your Back

    At our law firm, we don’t just give legal advice; we’re your trusted advisor for life. If you’ve been scammed, we can help you set up your affairs in such a way that there are layers of protection built-in so it doesn’t happen again. We’re also here for your family. If your elderly parents don’t have an estate plan in place – or it’s been a while since they had it reviewed – we’re here for them too. We can help them protect not only their data, but everything they want to pass on to you.

    If you want to learn more about how we can help you and your parents create a Life & Legacy estate plan that keeps your family out of court and conflict and ensures your plan works when you need it to, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • What Happens To Your Social Media Account When You Die?

    What Happens To Your Social Media Account When You Die?

    When you die, what happens to your online life? Each social media platform has its own rules for dealing with the accounts of deceased users, ranging from permanent deletion to transforming accounts into places for mourning and memory. Understanding these options is essential for managing digital assets responsibly and respecting your wishes. So let’s take a look at the various policies of major social media sites and what you can do to make sure your accounts are handled the way you want. After all, our social media accounts reflect our personalities, interests, and memories, so we want them handled with care.

    What Each Platform Allows

    Let’s take a look at the practical aspects and discuss what each digital platform allows or requires. Note that these provisions are updated as of April 2024, as this article is being published.

    Facebook. Facebook offers two options for accounts of deceased users: either close the account permanently or convert it into a memorial account where loved ones can share memories. The platform allows you to designate a “Legacy Contact” while you’re alive; someone who can manage your memorialized account by updating your profile picture, accepting friend requests, and posting memories. Importantly, they cannot log into the account or view your private message history.

    Instagram. Instagram also allows accounts to be either memorialized or permanently deleted. A memorialized Instagram account will display a “Remembering” label and won’t appear in public spaces like the “Explore” section. The process requires proof of death, such as a death certificate, so someone will need to provide that after you’re gone.

    TikTok. TikTok permits family members or legal representatives to request the deactivation of a deceased user’s account by providing appropriate proof of death. Unlike Facebook and Instagram, and at the time of this writing, TikTok doesn’t currently offer a memorialization option, so your account is permanently removed once the request is processed.

    X. X (formerly known as Twitter) allows the family to close the account of a deceased user. This involves submitting proof of death, after which your account and its contents are permanently deleted. X doesn’t provide a memorialization option.

    YouTube. YouTube is covered by Google’s overall policies, which offer a proactive feature called the Inactive Account Manager. This allows you to set instructions for your account if you become inactive for a specified period. You can also choose to have your data shared with trusted contacts or have the account deleted.

    LinkedIn. On LinkedIn, immediate family members or colleagues can request to remove a deceased member’s profile by providing proof of death. LinkedIn focuses on maintaining a professional network and so doesn’t offer account memorialization.

    How To Close Or Memorialize An Account

    It’s important to know that social media platforms generally discourage logging into a deceased person’s account as it poses privacy and security risks. To close or memorialize your account, family members must directly contact the service and provide the necessary documentation. They won’t be able to make a phone call, either – they’ll have to find out how to close or memorialize your account on each site separately, which can be time-consuming and frustrating. But there’s a better way! You can create a plan that helps your loved ones navigate the process. To do that, you need a trusted estate planning lawyer.

    What An Estate Planning Attorney Can Do

    A trusted estate planning attorney plays a crucial role in helping manage your digital legacy, ensuring that your wishes for your online accounts are carried out after your passing. Here’s what a skilled attorney can do to help ensure that your loved ones have the necessary information and authority to manage your accounts:

    1. Create a Digital Asset Plan

    An estate planning attorney can help you draft a digital asset plan that details your wishes for each of your online accounts. This plan can specify which accounts should be closed and which should be memorialized. It includes all kinds of digital assets, from social media accounts and emails to digital wallets and personal blogs.

    Your attorney can also guide you in appointing an executor, a person who will be responsible for managing your online assets according to your wishes. A knowledgeable attorney will explain the responsibilities involved and help ensure that the executor has the legal authority they need to act on your behalf with various digital platforms.

    2. Provide Necessary Legal Documentation

    A skilled attorney can prepare necessary legal documents that authorize your executor to access your accounts. This might include special powers of attorney and directives that are included in your will, trust, or in a separate document.

    3. Secure Your Account Information

    A trusted attorney can suggest secure ways to store your account usernames, passwords, and any other necessary information. This information can be kept in a way that respects privacy and security but becomes accessible to the digital executor or designated individuals after your death.

    4. Update the Plan Over Time

    As laws and platform policies change, a trusted estate planning attorney can help update your digital estate plan. This ensures that it remains compliant with new regulations and continues to reflect your wishes accurately.

    However, it’s important to know that most estate planning attorneys treat their clients as a “one-and-done” transaction. Once your plan is signed, they won’t contact you again to ensure that your plan stays updated over time. And they won’t explain that failure to update your plan regularly means your plan won’t work when you need it. We’ll keep in touch for your lifetime to ensure your plan works.

    How We Can Help

    We don’t merely dispense legal counsel; we safeguard all your assets and guide you to make the right decisions for your unique situation. We take the time to fully understand what’s important to you. Together, we’ll craft a thoughtful and holistic plan so you and your family can avoid the stress, conflict, and chaos that comes with incomplete planning – including incomplete digital planning.

    To learn more about how we approach estate planning from a place of heart and understanding, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Why Estate Planning Is The Best Use of Your Tax Refund

    Why Estate Planning Is The Best Use of Your Tax Refund

    When that extra bit of money from your tax refund lands in your bank account, it’s easy to start dreaming about all the ways you can use it. Financial experts may tell you that it’s a chance to pay off debts, tuck away savings for an emergency, or add to your retirement savings. You, on the other hand, may want to splurge on something special. However, there’s an often-overlooked option that not only provides immediate satisfaction but ensures long-term benefits for both you and your loved ones: estate planning.

    Estate planning might sound like a complex and daunting chore reserved for the wealthy, but it’s actually a straightforward and crucial process for everyone. In its most basic terms, estate planning involves making a plan for what happens to your belongings and finances after you’re gone or if you become incapacitated. Think of it as creating a roadmap for your loved ones to follow, ensuring they’re taken care of and know exactly how to handle your estate according to your wishes. After all, someone will have to do something with your stuff after you’re gone, and if you’re the one who takes care of it while you can, you can save your loved ones a lot of pain. You’ll also make sure you’re cared for in the way you want, by the people you want, if you become incapacitated.

    By the way, proper estate planning covers much more than just money and personal belongings, but we’ll delve into that in just a bit.

    Why You Need an Estate Plan

    Not only do you need a plan for what happens with your finances and personal items after you’re gone or become incapacitated, but you also need an estate plan if any of the following are true:

    You care about the people in your life who will handle things for you if you cannot. First and foremost, estate planning isn’t something you just do for yourself, it’s truly an investment you make for the people you love. If it feels daunting to you, imagine how they will feel left with a big confusing mess when something happens to you. It’s one of those things that you must get handled before you need it because by the time you need it, it’s too late, and you’ve just left the people you love the most with a big mess.

    That’s why we say that estate planning is about protecting your family. It’s about protecting their time, energy, and attention, and leaving them with a gift of love. It’s a way of saying “I love you” that goes beyond words, providing them with security and guidance during a difficult time. By making your wishes clear, you can keep them out of court, prevent potential conflicts, and ensure your loved ones are supported exactly as you intend.

    You want your wishes to be honored. With an estate plan, you have the power to dictate exactly how you want to be cared for if you’re incapacitated, or who makes decisions for you if you cannot. If you wouldn’t want to linger in a hospital bed for years like Terry Schiavo did before her death, you must create a plan. Otherwise, the people you love could get stuck in a court process fighting over your care.

    You also get to say who inherits your assets, from your home and savings to sentimental items. Planning ensures there isn’t any confusion and guarantees that your possessions end up in the right hands. Planning also makes it clear who should handle things after you’re gone, and it makes it as easy as possible for the people you choose.

    You want to save money and time (for yourself and your family). Dealing with the court if you become incapacitated or when you die is time-consuming, can be expensive, and is totally public. Without a clear plan in place, you or your family may face costly legal battles and time-consuming administrative hurdles. Your careful planning now can save them from this stress and financial strain, making the process as smooth as possible. In addition, careful planning ensures that you save yourself money by avoiding unnecessary costs if you’re unable to care for yourself.

    You have minor children. If you have minor children, consider who is home with them when you aren’t. Would that person know what to do if you didn’t make it home? Or would the authorities show up at your house and have to take your children into the care of protective custody/strangers while they figured it out? If the idea of this terrifies you like it does most parents, you need an estate plan.

    Most parents of minor kids are overwhelmed with the demands of everyday life and don’t stop to think that estate planning applies to them. A common misconception is that planning is only for older folks who know their mortality is staring them in the face, and young parents think that’s too far off to warrant any consideration. That’s a mistake. Death happens to everyone and incapacity can happen before it, no matter how old you are right now. Don’t leave your kids at risk.

    So now you know you need an estate plan but aren’t sure what to do next. If you feel like the process seems daunting, don’t worry. Taking that first step is easier than you might think.

    Put Your Tax Refund To Work

    You might consider using your tax refund to do your estate plan on your own or opt for a cheap online service. While these options can seem cost-effective at first glance, they don’t offer the comprehensive coverage and personalized advice that your unique situation requires.

    Instead, investing your refund in working with a heart-centered, holistic attorney with a process in place for ensuring that your plan works throughout your lifetime is a much wiser choice. We’ll get to know you, your family dynamics, and your assets, and then help you choose the right plan for you, both now and into the future. Creating a will or a trust isn’t a one-and-done thing you do and then put on a shelf or in a drawer and never look at again. When you do that, your plan is almost guaranteed to fail when the people you love need it. In that case, it’s almost better to do nothing because then at least you have it on your to-do list. False security is one of the greatest risks of estate planning.

    We’ll help you navigate the law and also help you tailor your estate plan to fit your specific needs, as well as provide peace of mind knowing that your estate plan is thorough and legally sound. Remember, when it comes to safeguarding your family’s future and ensuring your wishes are accurately reflected, the value of expert guidance is well worth the investment.

    At the very least, your attorney should help you create the relevant documents, including:

    Creating a Will: A will is a document in which you detail the distribution of your assets and designate guardians for any minor children. It serves as your voice, ensuring your assets are allocated as you desire.

    Setting Up a Trust: For greater control over the distribution of your assets, a trust is invaluable. It not only allows for precise management of how and when your assets are distributed, but can also offer tax advantages and circumvent the lengthy and public probate process. In addition, and maybe more importantly, a trust will help your loved ones avoid a lengthy, expensive,  and totally public court process, which can cost your family significant amounts of time, energy, and attention.

    Selecting Guardians and Executors: A key component of estate planning is choosing individuals who will execute your wishes and look after your children if you’re unable to do so. These crucial choices help safeguard your family’s future. If you want to go beyond merely choosing people to raise your kids, you need a thorough Kids Protection Plan, which takes into account anything that could happen (i.e., you’re in a car accident and they’re with a babysitter at home). A Kids Protection Plan also ensures your kids are raised by the people you want in the way you want, that someone you’d never want to raise your kids is unable to, and that the right people are able to get emergency care for them if you’re traveling without them.

    Managing Taxes and Expenses: Effective estate planning can significantly lessen the tax load on your beneficiaries, allowing a larger portion of your assets to benefit them directly instead of going towards tax settlements.

    These are all undoubtedly important and are what most estate planning attorneys will do for you. However, we’ll go a few steps further, ensuring that investing your tax refund in an estate plan is the very best investment you’ll make all year. We do this by:

    • Empowering you to choose the right plan that fits your unique family situation, values, and budget (most lawyers will tell you what you need);
    • Ensuring your assets are inventoried and don’t end up lost (most lawyers won’t tell you that this happens – a lot – to the tune of billions of dollars every year);
    • Creating a Kids Protection Plan, a comprehensive plan outside of your will for what happens to your kids if something happened to you (most lawyers don’t even think to do this);
    • Being a trusted advisor for your family, so they have someone to turn to for help when something happens to you (most lawyers don’t ever make contact with your family after you’ve completed your estate plan);
    • Capturing your memories, stories, values, and family traditions so they’re passed down to the next generations (most lawyers don’t think to do this either); and
    • A system for updating your plan at least every three years to make sure your plan stays up to date so as your life changes and the law changes, your plan works when you need it to (most lawyers treat their clients as a “one-and-done” transaction, never checking in again and letting your plan go stale).

    What If I Didn’t Get a Refund This Year?

    Know these two things: 1) Estate planning is always a wise investment, whether you get a refund or not; and 2) We use a unique process called Life & Legacy Planning, which can help you organize your finances so you’re more likely to get a refund next year, or at least not have a big unexpected tax bill, if that’s what happened this year. We’ll also help you get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before, so that you make the very best decisions about the allocation of your resources for yourself and the people you love.

    Estate Planning: The Ultimate Expression of Love

    Among all the ways to use your tax refund, estate planning with us ensures that your love and care for your family endure long after you’re gone. It’s an act of foresight that not only secures your family’s financial future but also leaves a legacy.

    We’ll work with you to create a complete plan that’s worth more to your loved ones than your tax refund will cover. To learn more about our Life & Legacy Planning process and how we approach estate planning from a place of heart, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office today.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Navigating the World of Cryptocurrency: A Guide for Parents and Teens

    Navigating the World of Cryptocurrency: A Guide for Parents and Teens

    In an era where digital innovation shapes every aspect of our lives, it’s no surprise that our teenagers are drawn to the allure of cryptocurrency. This digital form of money represents a shift away from traditional financial systems. If you’re the parent of teens, understanding cryptocurrency is crucial so you can provide them with the guidance they need to navigate this new world safely and wisely. I’m here to help you learn what you need to know.

    What is Cryptocurrency, Exactly?

    Cryptocurrency, which folks also call “crypto” is, in essence, virtual money that can be used to buy goods and services. It can also be traded for profit, much like stocks. However, unlike the dollars in your wallet, crypto exists only in the digital world. The crypto universe is vast, with thousands of digital currencies out there.

    Crypto is based on blockchain technology, which ensures transactions are secure, transparent, and decentralized, so they’re not controlled by any government or financial institution (there are pros and cons to this that we’ll describe below). Imagine blockchain as a digital Lego tower where each block represents a piece of information, and once a block is added to the tower, it can’t be removed or altered, making it a super secure way to keep track of cryptocurrency transactions – kind of like a high-tech, unbreakable diary.

    A critical component of understanding cryptocurrency is the concept of a crypto wallet. Unlike a physical wallet, a crypto wallet doesn’t store currency; instead, it holds secure digital keys that allow access to cryptocurrencies.

    What Parents of Teens Need to Know

    To the younger, digital-native generation, cryptocurrency is an exciting and innovative concept. They’re not afraid of technology and investing online. They’re aware of the potentially significant returns on investments, stories of cryptocurrency millionaires, and the prospect of being part of a cutting-edge financial movement. This is why crypto is very attractive to teens.

    Parents should know that while there are no laws specifically prohibiting teens from owning or trading cryptocurrency, most platforms and exchanges require users to be 18 years old. For eager and younger investors, custodial accounts present a solution. These accounts allow parents to oversee their teen’s investments, providing a controlled environment where teens can learn about digital currencies.

    These accounts not only allow parents to monitor their teen’s investment activities but also offer a hands-on educational experience in managing and understanding digital currencies. It’s a balanced approach that combines the practical aspects of investing with the security of parental oversight. And if you’re a business owner, you may want to consider paying your kids and then putting up to $7,000 of what you pay them into a Roth IRA using cryptocurrency and a self-directed IRA structure. By doing this, you can invest that $7,000 in cryptocurrency, and let it ride for the next 50 years. Imagine what it will be worth to them then, and it will grow 100% tax-free.

    For more information about custodial accounts and self-directed IRAs invested in cryptocurrency, schedule a call with us.

    Be Aware of the Risks

    While learning how to invest in crypto can be a great learning activity for you and your teen, be aware of the risks involved. For one, the crypto market is highly volatile. Prices can surge or plummet within a short period, making investments speculative and risky. It’s crucial to have open discussions with your teen about the importance of not investing more than they can afford to lose, and about the reality of the speculative nature of digital currency. Teach your teen the importance of research, diversification, and long-term thinking, and you’ll help instill responsible investment habits that will last a lifetime (and make you proud!).

    Most importantly, ensure you know how to get into their cryptocurrency accounts in case something happens, and that someone knows how to get into your accounts as well. The biggest risk to your cryptocurrency investments is that you haven’t documented them such that someone could access your accounts when something happens to you. Contact us and let us help!

    Alternatives and Best Practices

    For families that find direct investment in cryptocurrency too daunting, there are alternative ways to engage with the digital economy. Encouraging your teen to learn about blockchain technology or exploring investments in crypto-related stocks and ETFs can provide a safer introduction to the concepts without the direct risks associated with cryptocurrency trading.

    However, if you’re ready to make a go at it, here are some best practices to keep in mind:

    Foster a Culture of Learning. The rapid evolution of digital currencies makes continuous learning essential. Encourage your teen (and take the opportunity yourself) to stay informed about the latest developments by reading reputable news sources, listening to podcasts, and even speaking with a financial advisor.

    Establish Guidelines. Before your teen makes any financial investment, it’s important to establish clear guidelines. Discuss together how much time and money is reasonable to invest, the importance of privacy and security in digital transactions, and the expectations for responsible behavior. Setting these ground rules early on can lay a strong foundation for healthy financial habits.

    Embrace the Future. Regardless of whether your teen decides to invest in cryptocurrency, understanding this new facet of the financial world is invaluable for you. The rise of digital currencies offers a unique opportunity for parents and teens to learn together about the future of money, technology, and personal finance. It’s a chance to explore new concepts, discuss values and responsibilities, and prepare for a future where digital currencies may play a significant role.

    Prepare Yourself and Your Teen With Our Guidance

    Whatever the future holds, we believe it’s important to educate your children about finances so you leave a legacy of fiscal responsibility when you’re gone. That’s why we help ensure that when you’re no longer here, your assets – including cryptocurrency – are passed on the way you want, easily, and without your family ending up in court and conflict. We do that by approaching estate planning as a relationship – a lifetime relationship with you as your and your family’s trusted advisor so you have someone to turn to in times of change and uncertainty, and in times of joy and excitement.

    To learn more about how we can guide you and your family to secure the future you want, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • April Fools! How DIY Wills and Trusts Offer a False Sense of Security…and May Leave Your Family With an Expensive Mess

    April Fools! How DIY Wills and Trusts Offer a False Sense of Security…and May Leave Your Family With an Expensive Mess

    If you’ve been traveling around the sun for a while, you’ve no doubt heard of a will, a document that says what happens to your money and belongings after you die. You may even have a will, or know you should get one. Maybe you’ve heard of a trust and wondered what it is and how it works. You may have even done research on Google about how to do your own will or trust.

    In fact, it’s hard to poke around the internet and not find do-it-yourself (DIY) wills and trusts services. Legal Zoom, TrustandWill.com, and even media personalities Dave Ramsey and Suze Orman offer cheap DIY documents. You can even create your own will or trust for free by downloading a few forms. What these websites won’t do, however, is explain the potential consequences that can happen if you use one of their services.

    Legal Documents Have Legal Consequences

    The truth is that trusts and wills, and other documents that all adults should have in place, like a health care directive and power of attorney, are legal documents with legal consequences. They contain lots of legal language. Even if you think you understand the words, you likely don’t fully understand the nuances in the terminology. There’s a reason lawyers have to complete college, graduate from law school, then pass a bar exam before they can practice. It takes time and effort to learn the law, the legal terminology, the application of the law, and the potential consequences if something goes wrong.

    Even then, many lawyers who don’t specialize in estate planning, or wills and trusts, put in place legal documents that fail when you become incapacitated or die, for various reasons.  Yet you may be getting sold on the idea that you can draft legal documents online on your own. The promise is that you can save money and completely protect yourself and your loved ones from expensive legal consequences of not having planning in place. Since it’s early April when this article is being published, we call “April Fools” on these services.

    A Real Life Cautionary Tale

    Let’s keep you from being fooled by illustrating what can happen when you draft legal documents on your own without understanding the consequences. What follows is a true story:

    A woman passed away and her husband came into his lawyer’s office to get legal advice on what to do next. The woman (we’ll call her “Jane”) received an inheritance from her first husband (let’s call him “John”). She was also close to her adult children and her grandchildren, and wanted to make sure they received what was left of her inheritance from their father. While she intended to leave her second husband some money, she made it very clear to her family that she wanted to provide for her children and grandchildren.

    Jane was frugal. She didn’t want to spend money on an attorney. So she did some research on Google about wills and trusts, downloaded some forms, and wrote out her own documents. She learned from Google that a trust can keep her family from going through a court process called probate, which would save them money and leave more for them to inherit. So she drafted her own trust thinking that she’d achieve her goals and save money at the same time.

    You may already see where this is going…

    When John’s lawyer read Jane’s DIY trust, they realized that what Jane actually did was leave her entire inheritance to her second husband. Jane legally disinherited her children and grandchildren. Jane’s DIY trust was also subject to laws of a different U.S. state than the one she lived in, meaning that any legal process related to the trust would be more complicated than it needed to be. Surely this was not the result Jane wanted.

    Jane not only disinherited her children, but she failed to transfer her house to the trust, despite drafting and filing a deed on her own, and she left assets out of her trust altogether. So while she thought she was doing the right thing, what she really did was leave her loved ones with a giant, expensive mess.

    Not surprisingly, the family ended up in court and years later, the matter still isn’t resolved.

    You Don’t Have to Make the Same Mistakes

    Jane must have believed what she heard from well-meaning folks like Dave and Suze about doing a will and trust on her own. She probably thought she understood the legal documents she drafted and signed. She most definitely thought she was making things easy for her family and that she was giving her children money from their father. But Jane was fooled. 

    Don’t be Jane. If Jane had worked with us, she would’ve created a plan that would accomplish her goals and keep her family out of court and out of conflict. She would’ve saved her family years of heartache and pain, not to mention the expense. Jane’s story teaches us that it’s absolutely worth it to work with a lawyer whenever you’re dealing with a legal document – including a will or trust. Don’t “trust” those who say you can do it cheaply or do it yourself. Don’t be Jane.

    What to Do Instead

    You owe it to your loved ones to take the time and put in the investment to do your estate planning right, and keep it up over time. In fact, it’s the last and greatest gift you can leave them. Having your affairs buttoned up so they don’t have a mess on their hands and are allowed to process their grief in peace is your final act of love.

    If you want to leave your family the gift of your love, we can help. At our firm, we don’t merely dispense legal counsel or draft documents; we safeguard your family. We look at your specific family dynamics and your goals and then work with you to create a plan that ensures you and your loved ones avoid the stress, conflict, and chaos that comes from DIY documents.

    To learn more about how we approach estate planning from a place of heart so you can leave your family with love, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Parents, Step-Parents, And Children, Oh My! Blended Families + Death = A Potential Nightmare

    Parents, Step-Parents, And Children, Oh My! Blended Families + Death = A Potential Nightmare

    Anyone who’s seen an episode of “Modern Family” knows that families these days come in many different shapes and sizes. Long gone are the days when a “family” was defined as a mother, father, and two children. In this article, we’ll focus on one of the types of families that’s common in our modern culture: the blended family.

    The Unique Dynamics At Play in Blended Families

    A “blended family” comes into being when parents divorce and at least one remarries. While everyone may get along effortlessly while the parent is alive, that too often doesn’t happen once the parent dies. Why? Because the law still hasn’t caught up to our modern definition of “family.” The law often favors the spouse, which works well when the spouse and the deceased have children together. But when the deceased parent has children from another marriage, the children can – indeed, often are – cut out of their inheritance.

    Other than the law being slow to catch up, there are a few more reasons why this happens:

    • The parent trusts the new spouse completely and can’t comprehend the spouse ever doing anything to harm the children;
    • The new spouse may place his or her own interest ahead of the children – or have children from a first marriage and want them to benefit instead; or
    • The parent hasn’t been educated about what could happen when he or she dies, and hasn’t consulted with a competent attorney to get educated.

    A True (and Common) Story That Became a Nightmare

    In a recent marketwatch.com article, a woman wrote about her own nightmare scenario. Her father (we’ll call him “Dad”) owned several properties, including the house she lived in as a child. He remarried, and when his health started to decline, her stepmother (we’ll call her “Stepmom”) made financial moves so he could qualify for government health care benefits under the Medi-Cal program. Whereas Medi-Cal is a needs-based program (meaning you only qualify if you can’t afford to pay), many people with means are able to take advantage of legal maneuvers and set their assets aside so they qualify. Doing this keeps assets protected for the next generation(s).   

    So far, so good. It seems as if Stepmom has the children’s interests at heart, right? Not so fast.

    In order to qualify for Medi-Cal, Dad had to transfer his assets to someone else while he was alive. That “someone else” was Stepmom. Apparently, she convinced Dad it was the right move and that she could be trusted with his properties. Dad eventually died, and so at the time of his death, Stepmom owned all his properties, including the childhood home. Stepmom went on a selling spree, cashing in on them all. Guess where the money went? If you guessed Stepmom and HER daughter, you’d be right. Dad’s children from his first marriage got nothing.

    Wait – Surely That’s Not Legal!

    You may be thinking that’s a horribly unfair outcome – so bad that it has to be illegal. But it’s not. It’s completely legal. Once Stepmom owned the properties, she was free to do anything she wanted with them. She chose – deliberately – to give her stepchildren none of the proceeds and under the law, she had the absolute right to do this. The children had no recourse. They’d lose in court every day of the week.

    So we’re left to wonder: is this the outcome Dad wanted? Could he have foreseen Stepmom was capable of cutting out his children? Did he know there was another way he could have protected them and still qualified for government benefits? With education from a trusted lawyer, would he have done anything differently?

    How to Ensure Your Children Are Spared From the Potential Consequences

    If you want to avoid the same tragic consequences, there are some steps you can take right away:

    1. Don’t Be Afraid of the Inevitable: Benjamin Franklin is quoted as saying, “Nothing is certain but death and taxes,” and he was half right (you can avoid taxes with careful estate planning but that’s a topic for another article). Death is certain. Yet we’re all uncomfortable talking about death, much less planning for it. Accept death as a reality then make plans while you can.

    2. Hold a Family Meeting: Having a heart-to-heart about your wishes, values, and goals can go a long way in preventing misunderstandings after you pass away.

    3. Educate Yourself: Hands down the single most important thing you can do is educate yourself and educate yourself now. Don’t rely on the internet. Laws are different from state to state, families are different, assets are handled in different ways, and the internet won’t take all this into account.

    4. Work With a Lawyer Who Understands Your Family Dynamics: One size doesn’t fit all when it comes to planning for life and death matters like these! What works for one family might not work for yours. You need a tailored plan to fit your unique needs. You deserve, and your family deserves, to have a plan that works when your family needs it. That’s why you need a trusted, heart-centered attorney who will appreciate your unique situation and educate you so you’re empowered to put the right plan in place. Your family’s future literally depends on it.

    Your loved ones don’t have to face tragic circumstances when you pass. With honest conversations, proper education, and guidance from a trusted attorney, you can put together a plan that keeps the peace and makes sure your loved ones are taken care of just the way you want.

    To learn more about how we approach estate planning from the heart and yet with all the strategies you need to keep your assets in the family, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

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