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  • 10 Steps to Take Now to Secure a Comfortable Retirement: Part 1

    10 Steps to Take Now to Secure a Comfortable Retirement: Part 1

    Retirement is more than just an end to the working years; it’s an exciting new phase of life that requires thoughtful preparation and strategic planning. Since May is Older Americans Awareness Month, it’s the perfect opportunity to explore 10 steps you can take now to ensure a comfortable and fulfilling retirement. In this article, we’ll discuss the first 5 steps, why they’re important, and how to implement them. Next week, we’ll continue with the remaining 5 steps.

    Step 1: Plan for the Transfer of Your Assets

    Why It’s Important: Effective estate planning ensures that your assets are distributed according to your wishes, potentially reduces estate taxes, and can prevent a lot of legal complications for your heirs. Proper estate planning also helps to avoid the public, often lengthy and costly process of probate, ensuring that your heirs have quicker access to the assets you leave behind. Moreover, clear directives in estate planning can prevent family disputes (sometimes resulting in irretrievably broken relationships) and ensure that your specific instructions are followed, preserving your legacy exactly as you intend.

    Practical Steps: Consult with us. We always start the client relationship with education about your options that align with your specific family dynamics, assets, and wishes. From there, we’ll help you create a tailored Life & Legacy plan that works when you and your family need it to, keeping you and them out of court and conflict. Importantly, we can also help you avoid unnecessary taxes before and during retirement (and who doesn’t want that?).

    Life Insurance: Having adequate coverage to handle any debts and funeral expenses can provide a financial cushion for those who depend on you. As part of our Life & Legacy Planning process, we’ll educate you about how much insurance you need and how to pass the funds to the people you want, while avoiding unnecessary taxes and ensuring the funds are available as soon as possible.

    Step 2: Prepare for Long-Term Care Expenses

    Why It’s Important: As we continue to live longer, so does the probability of needing some form of long-term care. These services, whether in-home care, assisted living, or nursing facilities, can be costly and aren’t typically covered by Medi-Cal. Without proper planning, the high costs of long-term care can quickly deplete retirement savings, potentially leaving less financial support for spouses or other family members. Furthermore, preemptive financial planning can significantly ease the emotional and logistical challenges of arranging for long-term care.

    Practical Steps: Research long-term care insurance. Investigate different policies early, ideally in your 50s or early 60s, before premiums rise significantly. Compare benefits, coverage limits, and the reputation of insurance providers.

    Learn About Government Programs: Understand what Medi-Cal covers and explore Medi-Cal eligibility for long-term care, which generally requires spending down your assets.

    Preparing for long-term care can be tricky because the laws are quite complicated. However, we offer elder care planning to help you navigate your options and create a plan that preserves your assets for your loved ones, rather than draining them for health care costs.

    Step 3: Pass on Generational Wealth

    Why It’s Important: By ensuring that wealth passes effectively to future generations, you can secure their financial future and teach them how to manage and grow that wealth responsibly. Furthermore, generational wealth can enhance the lives of future family members and their communities by providing educational opportunities, fostering entrepreneurship, and supporting philanthropic efforts. It also instills a sense of responsibility and stewardship, which are crucial for maintaining family wealth over generations.

    Practical Steps: Explore educational trusts. We can help you set up trusts that release funds for your children or grandchildren based on milestones such as graduation from college. These trusts also have tax benefits, and we can educate you about how they work.

    Create a Family Investment Plan: Include younger family members in discussions about family investments to educate them about financial principles.

    We can not only help you create an educational trust but also asset protection trusts so you can create generational wealth for your family.

    Step 4: Leave a Legacy

    Why It’s Important: What your family will treasure most isn’t the financial gifts you leave, but your life lessons, values, and memories that define your family heritage. A well-planned legacy can inspire and guide future generations, providing them with a sense of identity and belonging to a greater family story. You can ensure that your philosophical and ethical beliefs continue to influence even when you’re no longer present, helping to shape the character and choices of your descendants.

    Practical Steps: Record Life & Legacy Interview with us. We include an interview as an important part of our unique Life & Legacy Planning process. The interview ensures your family has a piece of your family history they can hold onto long after you’re gone. They’ll also treasure being able to see you and hearing your voice whenever they want.

    Step 5: Cultivate and Share Family Values and History

    Why It’s Important: Continuing the idea of leaving a legacy, know that strengthening family bonds through shared history and values helps maintain a sense of continuity across generations. This cultural and historical continuity enhances their psychological resilience and emotional well-being. Additionally, a well-documented family history can serve as a valuable asset for educational and genealogical purposes, enriching the lives of current and future generations. Here are some steps you can take outside of recording a Life & Legacy Interview with us.

    Practical Steps: Create a family archive. Gather photos, letters, and important documents in a digital format to ensure preservation and easy sharing. Enlist the help of a younger family member (Gen Z, anyone?) if you need to. Also consider writing down recipes, stories, and holiday traditions that can be passed down as family legacies.

    Compile Family Histories: Write or record stories about family elders, significant events, and the origins of family traditions. Note that writing these down the “old school” way, i.e., pen and paper, will be meaningful to younger generations. They’ll love having a piece of paper with your handwriting on it.

    Host Family Reunions: Regular gatherings not only help reinforce family bonds but also allow older generations to impart wisdom and traditions firsthand.

    So whether you’re a few years away or are about to retire now, it’s never too early (or too late!) to start planning. Be sure to check back next week for even more steps you can take to ensure peace of mind when the time comes.

    Let Us Help Secure Comfort in Your Retirement

    At our firm, we do more than just guide you through estate planning; we provide you with peace of mind, knowing you’re free to enjoy retirement. However, understanding the complexities of retirement—from estate planning to ensuring long-term care and preserving generational wealth—can be daunting. That’s why, as your heart-centered law firm, we streamline the process, making it as easy on you as possible.

    If you’re interested in learning more about how to create a Life & Legacy Plan that secures your comfort in retirement, we invite you to schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office. Let us help you live your best life, every step of the way.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Parents, Step-Parents, And Children, Oh My! Blended Families + Death = A Potential Nightmare

    Parents, Step-Parents, And Children, Oh My! Blended Families + Death = A Potential Nightmare

    Anyone who’s seen an episode of “Modern Family” knows that families these days come in many different shapes and sizes. Long gone are the days when a “family” was defined as a mother, father, and two children. In this article, we’ll focus on one of the types of families that’s common in our modern culture: the blended family.

    The Unique Dynamics At Play in Blended Families

    A “blended family” comes into being when parents divorce and at least one remarries. While everyone may get along effortlessly while the parent is alive, that too often doesn’t happen once the parent dies. Why? Because the law still hasn’t caught up to our modern definition of “family.” The law often favors the spouse, which works well when the spouse and the deceased have children together. But when the deceased parent has children from another marriage, the children can – indeed, often are – cut out of their inheritance.

    Other than the law being slow to catch up, there are a few more reasons why this happens:

    • The parent trusts the new spouse completely and can’t comprehend the spouse ever doing anything to harm the children;
    • The new spouse may place his or her own interest ahead of the children – or have children from a first marriage and want them to benefit instead; or
    • The parent hasn’t been educated about what could happen when he or she dies, and hasn’t consulted with a competent attorney to get educated.

    A True (and Common) Story That Became a Nightmare

    In a recent marketwatch.com article, a woman wrote about her own nightmare scenario. Her father (we’ll call him “Dad”) owned several properties, including the house she lived in as a child. He remarried, and when his health started to decline, her stepmother (we’ll call her “Stepmom”) made financial moves so he could qualify for government health care benefits under the Medi-Cal program. Whereas Medi-Cal is a needs-based program (meaning you only qualify if you can’t afford to pay), many people with means are able to take advantage of legal maneuvers and set their assets aside so they qualify. Doing this keeps assets protected for the next generation(s).   

    So far, so good. It seems as if Stepmom has the children’s interests at heart, right? Not so fast.

    In order to qualify for Medi-Cal, Dad had to transfer his assets to someone else while he was alive. That “someone else” was Stepmom. Apparently, she convinced Dad it was the right move and that she could be trusted with his properties. Dad eventually died, and so at the time of his death, Stepmom owned all his properties, including the childhood home. Stepmom went on a selling spree, cashing in on them all. Guess where the money went? If you guessed Stepmom and HER daughter, you’d be right. Dad’s children from his first marriage got nothing.

    Wait – Surely That’s Not Legal!

    You may be thinking that’s a horribly unfair outcome – so bad that it has to be illegal. But it’s not. It’s completely legal. Once Stepmom owned the properties, she was free to do anything she wanted with them. She chose – deliberately – to give her stepchildren none of the proceeds and under the law, she had the absolute right to do this. The children had no recourse. They’d lose in court every day of the week.

    So we’re left to wonder: is this the outcome Dad wanted? Could he have foreseen Stepmom was capable of cutting out his children? Did he know there was another way he could have protected them and still qualified for government benefits? With education from a trusted lawyer, would he have done anything differently?

    How to Ensure Your Children Are Spared From the Potential Consequences

    If you want to avoid the same tragic consequences, there are some steps you can take right away:

    1. Don’t Be Afraid of the Inevitable: Benjamin Franklin is quoted as saying, “Nothing is certain but death and taxes,” and he was half right (you can avoid taxes with careful estate planning but that’s a topic for another article). Death is certain. Yet we’re all uncomfortable talking about death, much less planning for it. Accept death as a reality then make plans while you can.

    2. Hold a Family Meeting: Having a heart-to-heart about your wishes, values, and goals can go a long way in preventing misunderstandings after you pass away.

    3. Educate Yourself: Hands down the single most important thing you can do is educate yourself and educate yourself now. Don’t rely on the internet. Laws are different from state to state, families are different, assets are handled in different ways, and the internet won’t take all this into account.

    4. Work With a Lawyer Who Understands Your Family Dynamics: One size doesn’t fit all when it comes to planning for life and death matters like these! What works for one family might not work for yours. You need a tailored plan to fit your unique needs. You deserve, and your family deserves, to have a plan that works when your family needs it. That’s why you need a trusted, heart-centered attorney who will appreciate your unique situation and educate you so you’re empowered to put the right plan in place. Your family’s future literally depends on it.

    Your loved ones don’t have to face tragic circumstances when you pass. With honest conversations, proper education, and guidance from a trusted attorney, you can put together a plan that keeps the peace and makes sure your loved ones are taken care of just the way you want.

    To learn more about how we approach estate planning from the heart and yet with all the strategies you need to keep your assets in the family, schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with our office.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Think Your Kids Will Automatically Be Cared For In the Way You Want? They Might Not Be Unless You Do This

    Think Your Kids Will Automatically Be Cared For In the Way You Want? They Might Not Be Unless You Do This

    As parents, we’re hardwired to prioritize our children’s well-being above all else. We work tirelessly to provide for them, nurture them, and ensure they have every opportunity to thrive. Yet amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s easy to overlook a crucial aspect of their future: what happens to them if we’re no longer here to care for them?

    It’s a sobering thought, but one that deserves your attention. You may assume that in the event of your untimely passing, your children will automatically be cared for and inherit your assets. However, the reality is far more complex and potentially unsettling.

    Let’s unpack why relying on these assumptions could leave your children’s future in uncertain hands.

    The Myth of Automatic Care

    Yes, it’s true that your children will inherit your assets upon your passing. However, without advance planning, the management of those assets will fall into the hands of a court-appointed trustee. This is an expensive proposition for the people you love most, and worse, the trustee may not necessarily align with your values or financial philosophy, leaving your hard-earned assets vulnerable to mismanagement.

    On top of that, and maybe worst of all, under current laws, once your child reaches the age of 18, they gain unfettered access to their inheritance. While you may have envisioned these assets providing a foundation for their future endeavors, the reality is that many 18-year-olds lack the financial maturity to handle such responsibility. From impulsive spending to falling prey to financial scams, the risks are significant.

    The Importance of a Kids Protection Plan

    What’s the solution? Enter the Kids Protection Plan—a comprehensive legal planning system designed to safeguard your children’s well-being and financial future in the event of your incapacity or passing.

    A Kids Protection Plan empowers you to designate a trusted guardian who will step in to care for your children if you’re unable to do so. This ensures your children will be in the loving care of someone you know and trust, rather than leaving their fate to the discretion of a judge who may lack intimate knowledge of your family dynamics.

    Moreover, a complete Kids Protection Plan goes beyond long-term guardianship appointments. It includes a detailed roadmap for the management of your assets on behalf of your children, specifying how funds should be allocated for their upbringing, education, and other needs. By setting clear guidelines, you mitigate the risk of financial mismanagement and ensure that your children’s inheritance serves its intended purpose: supporting their growth and development.

    Leave Behind Detailed Instructions

    Naming legal guardians is just the first step. Your Kids Protection Plan won’t do much good if the people named in it aren’t aware of your plan or your wishes. You want to make sure your children’s guardians know your desires for their upbringing. Some things to include might be:

    • Faith and religious practices
    • Philosophy on education and where you’d want them to go to school
    • Activities you’d want your children involved in
    • Nutrition, medical care, or any other health considerations

    I make sure that everyone named in your plan is informed of what to do if the unthinkable happens to you. If you’re working with me, I’ll be there to guide them each step of the way. 

    Planning for the Future

    We understand the gravity of planning for your children’s future. That’s why we offer personalized Life & Legacy Planning Sessions designed to consider your family dynamics and assets, and then help you choose the right planning package and fees to safeguard and protect what matters to you most.

    Whether you’re a new parent or revisiting your estate plan, our team is here to provide the guidance and expertise you need to secure your family’s future for generations to come. Schedule a complimentary 15-minute call to learn more about our unique Life & Legacy Planning process. During your complimentary 15-minute call, we’ll explore your current arrangements and identify any gaps that may leave your children vulnerable.

    Don’t leave your children’s future to chance. Take the first step toward peace of mind and lasting security. After all, your children deserve nothing less than the assurance that they’ll be cared for and cherished, no matter what the future holds.

    Schedule a complimentary 15-minute call to get started.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session.

  • Want to Show Your Partner How Much You Love Them? Put Them In Your Will

    Want to Show Your Partner How Much You Love Them? Put Them In Your Will

    Love is undoubtedly the most profound and cherished thread that weaves us all together, and there are many different ways to express our love to the people who mean the most to us. Often when we think of showing our love, we think of bouquets of flowers, surprise gifts, and meaningful notes. But an often overlooked – and incredibly meaningful – way of showing your love is to put that love into a plan for the future. 

    While estate planning may seem like a realm of financial jargon and legalities, it is, at its core, a tangible expression of your care for those closest to you (that’s why I refer to estate planning as Life & Legacy Planning).

    In this blog, we’ll look at why adding your partner to your will and estate plan as a whole isn’t just a romantic gesture but the ultimate act of love.

    Providing Care and Protection

    Estate planning is typically associated with financial matters and legal technicalities, but at its core, it’s an expression of love for those we hold dear. It’s about not leaving a mess for the people you love. It’s about providing comfort and security to your loved ones long after you’re gone. And when you include your partner in your estate plan, you’re solidifying the foundation of your love and commitment, ensuring they’re cared for when you can no longer be there in person.

    One of the most tangible ways to demonstrate your love is by securing your partner’s legal and financial future through thoughtful estate planning, but not just any old estate planning — in our book, it needs to be “Life & Legacy Planning” so you know you have a “plan that works to keep your family out of court and out of conflict.”

    While a will, trust, and other estate planning documents are valuable, if they’re not properly counseled, regularly updated, and combined with additional planning tools such as a Kids Protection Plan, if you have minor children, and a Family Wealth Inventory plus Legacy Interviews to capture your tangible and non-tangible assets, your loved ones could be left with an expensive mess.

    If you’re married, your spouse already has some rights in the event of your incapacity or death, but that doesn’t mean they have automatic access to your accounts, or even to make your health care decisions for you the way you would want. If you’re not married, your unmarried partner or partners would have no rights to anything in the event of your death or incapacity. Truly the greatest gift you can give your beloved is a Life & Legacy Plan.

    Avoiding Legal Complications

    Love conquers many things, but we have to acknowledge that legal matters often require a bit more than just sentiment. Without a well-counseled, prepared, and updated Life & Legacy Plan, your partner might find themselves entangled in legal complications when it comes to inheriting assets if something happens to you. In fact, if you and your partner aren’t married, they won’t inherit anything at all!

    That’s because the law that controls what happens to your assets if you die without a plan is written with married couples in mind. That means that anyone you love who isn’t married to you or directly related to you through blood will be left with nothing when you die or if you become incapacitated, unless you plan in advance. 

    By including your partner in your will and overall Life & Legacy Plan, you get to ensure they’ll receive what you would want them to in the event of your loss and spare them the stress of navigating legal intricacies during an already emotionally trying time.

    Protecting The Life You Built Together

    Maybe the institution of marriage isn’t your thing or you and your partner are putting off marriage plans for the time being. Nonetheless, having a plan in place isn’t something you want to put off until you’re older. Chances are good that you’ve already begun to build a life together that’s worth protecting.

    Whether it’s the charming house you turned into a home or the vintage car you spent countless road trips in, shared assets are more than just possessions – they’re a part of your shared history. Including your partner in your estate plan ensures that these shared treasures are passed on smoothly, preserving the memories you built together.

    If you have children with your partner, Life & Legacy Planning takes on an even greater significance. If your partner isn’t biologically related to your children and hasn’t legally adopted them, there’s no legal guarantee that your partner would be able to care for your children or even visit them if something happens to you.

    Creating a Kids Protection Plan for your kids in your estate plan is an act of profound love and responsibility. By ensuring your partner has legal authority in matters of your children’s well-being, you’re displaying a commitment to everyone’s future happiness and security.

    Helping You Show The One You Love Just How Much You Care

    Love binds us together – but proper estate planning, and specifically Life & Legacy Planning, puts the love you have for your partner and your family into action. It’s not just about assets and legalities; it’s a declaration of your commitment and a promise to provide for your loved one even when you’re no longer physically present. 

    After all, in matters of the heart, there’s no gesture more profound than securing a future together.

    If you want to show your partner just how much you love them, contact us today to learn more about our Life & Legacy Planning process to get started. 

    Schedule a complimentary 15-minute call with us.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • 2 Conversations About Money and Death You Need to Have With Your Parents Right Now

    2 Conversations About Money and Death You Need to Have With Your Parents Right Now

    If you’ve given any thought about estate planning, you probably associate it with preparing for death. But did you know that there are critical reasons (and significant benefits) for planning while you’re still well and alive? That’s why I refer to my services as Life & Legacy Planning. When done right, planning for your assets and your death is something that should start right now through honest, open conversations with your family.

    It starts by talking with your parents, siblings, and children about what you want the future of your family to look like, how you’d like assets managed, and what type of care each family member would want in the event of a debilitating or terminal illness.

    You may have already started a conversation about estate planning with your family. But this week, I dive deeper into the conversations you need to have right now to truly understand your family’s financial picture and plan for the future in the best way.

    Conversation #1: What Exactly Do Your Parents Own?

    Initiating the first conversation involves posing fundamental questions to your parents and the older members of your family: “What do we have? Where is it? How would I access it if you weren’t here to guide me?” 

    The potential risk to your family’s wealth is intricately tied to the costs incurred in the event of a passing. Beyond the visible expenses of funerals, burial or cremation, and end-of-life medical care, there exists a myriad of unseen costs. 

    Unclaimed assets, amounting to approximately $70 billion in various departments across the U.S., often slip through the cracks because family members don’t know where the assets are, how to get them, or that they even exist.

    Because of this, tracking and documenting assets, including crypto assets, before incapacity or death is essential to protecting your family’s wealth when someone dies or becomes incapacitated.

    It may be difficult to bring up this topic with your parents or other family members, but how you approach it with them will make all the difference. The secrecy of asset locations or the fear of appearing greedy may hinder an open discussion between family members, but this can be overcome by building trust between relatives and entire generations.

    For the junior generation, building trust involves understanding the root causes of distrust and stepping into a mature, caring perspective for the greater family good. Similarly, senior generations can nurture trust by taking ownership of past parenting shortcomings and demonstrating faith in the individuals their children have become – after all, if you raised your children with a sense of financial and personal responsibility, you should be able to trust them!

    Navigating these challenges may be daunting, but the rewards of building trust and initiating this crucial conversation are immeasurable. Use the conversation as an opportunity to record the locations and access permissions of family assets. If you aren’t sure how to do this, we can help you create a clear inventory of your assets so nothing is lost when death or illness strike.

    Conversation #2: What Are Their Wishes for Long-Term Care?

    The next conversation you need to have with your parents is about long-term care planning. This conversation extends beyond financial considerations and looks into the emotional intricacies of care, posing questions about who will provide care if your parents become incapacitated or disabled, how it will be administered, and the potential burdens on loved ones.

    While money can be a less vulnerable entry point to this conversation, the core involves the tender question of personal care. Addressing concerns such as, “Who will take care of me? How will I be cared for? Will I be a burden on my loved ones?” brings a level of vulnerability that goes beyond financial considerations.

    Neglecting this conversation can leave crucial decision-making up to the medical system, often resulting in undesirable outcomes and accumulating costs. By engaging in the long-term care conversation, clarity emerges on preferences, funding, and avenues for protection against unforeseen care costs.

    Let Us Guide The Conversation

    If initiating these conversations feels challenging or uncomfortable, we can help. We focus on building personal relationships with our clients and their families, and can help guide you and your family through difficult discussions and tough questions about your family’s assets and wishes.

    It starts with a Life & Legacy Planning Session, where we look at everything you own and everyone you love to identify gaps in your family’s security and make a plan that ensures everything will be cared for the way you want when you die or if you become incapacitated.

    To learn more, schedule a complimentary 15-minute discovery call with us.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • Protecting Your Family’s Safety Net: How to Set Up Your Life Insurance Policy The Right Way

    Protecting Your Family’s Safety Net: How to Set Up Your Life Insurance Policy The Right Way

    A comprehensive Life & Legacy Plan is about creating a strategy that lets you enjoy your life to the fullest while protecting your loved ones’ future when you can no longer be there. It might seem like life insurance is an easy way to help secure your loved ones’ future – and it is – but your policy must be set up in the right way to have the best possible impact on your family.

    The way you set up your beneficiary designations on your insurance policy can significantly impact its effectiveness, how it’s used, and who controls it after you die. In this blog, we’ll explore how not to name beneficiaries on your life insurance and how to name beneficiaries to ensure your loved ones have the funds they need to thrive when something happens to you. 

    DO NOT Name a Minor As The Beneficiary of Your Life Insurance Policy  

    Naming your child or grandchild as a direct (or even backup) beneficiary of your life insurance policy may seem like a natural choice, but if you do that, you’re guaranteeing a bad outcome for the people you love.

    First of all, if a minor child is the beneficiary of a life insurance policy, it guarantees a court process called “guardianship” or “conservatorship” must occur to name a legal guardian or conservator to manage the assets for your minor beneficiary until they turn 18. Then, at 18, your minor child who is just barely an adult receives everything left in the account, outright, unprotected, with no oversight or guidance. This is the worst possible outcome for everyone involved. 

    If you’re buying life insurance, you’re doing it to make the lives of your loved ones better. We often say “insurance says I love you.” But naming a minor child as a beneficiary doesn’t say I love you; it says that you didn’t take the time to set your life insurance up the right way. You might think the answer is to name a trusted family member or friend as the beneficiary of your life insurance, hoping they’ll use the funds for your kids, but don’t do that! 

    If you name another adult as the beneficiary for a life insurance policy intended for your kids, your kids will have no legal right to the money – which means the adult you named as beneficiary can use the money however they want and don’t have to use it for your kids at all! 

    So what’s the solution? Keep reading to find out what to do instead.

    DO NOT Name Adult Beneficiaries Directly or They Risk Losing The Money Entirely

    Direct payouts to adult beneficiaries may seem straightforward, but can have unintended consequences. Life circumstances change, and the lump sum received from a life insurance policy might be at risk if not managed properly. By avoiding direct payouts, you can ensure that the financial security provided by the insurance is preserved for the long term.

    One key concern is the potential for beneficiaries to hastily misuse or exhaust the funds. A sudden windfall might lead to imprudent spending, leaving your loved ones without the financial support you intended. Additionally, if your beneficiaries aren’t financially savvy, they may struggle to manage a lump sum effectively, meaning the policy might lose money over time.

    Even if an adult beneficiary is financially responsible and savvy – or knows enough to speak to a financial advisor – life events can put the funds at risk. Because the life insurance proceeds now belong entirely to your beneficiaries in this case, the proceeds of the policy are now completely vulnerable to any future divorces or lawsuits that your beneficiary may go through in the future.

    That means that if your beneficiary is divorced, sued, or accumulates debt, all the money they received from your insurance policy could be lost.

    Plan For Your Life Insurance The Right Way: Use a Trust 

    A trust is an agreement you make with a person or an institution you choose. This person is called your trustee, and their directive is to manage the assets you put into or leave to your trust, according to the rules you create. 

    Instead of naming minors or adult loved ones as the direct beneficiaries of your life insurance, name your trust as the beneficiary of your policy instead. By doing this, your loved ones will still receive the funds you intend for them while maintaining control over how the funds are managed and distributed. This ensures that your wishes for your assets and your loved ones are carried out even after you’re gone. 

    How does it work?

    A well-drafted trust allows you to specify conditions for distributing the trust funds, ensuring that the funds are used for intended purposes such as your beneficiaries’ education, homeownership, or other specific needs. Distributions from the trust can also depend on the ages and circumstances of each beneficiary. This level of control can prevent the misuse of funds and promote responsible financial behavior for everyone involved. Plus, assets held in a trust bypass the probate process, ensuring a more efficient and timely distribution of funds to your beneficiaries. This can be crucial in providing immediate financial support to your loved ones when they need it the most. 

    While you can choose to have your trustee distribute life insurance proceeds directly to your beneficiaries outright at specific ages and stages, you may want to provide even more protection for your beneficiaries. One of the considerations we’ll help you make is whether to retain the assets in trust, giving your beneficiaries control over the trust assets, but in a manner that keeps the inherited life insurance protected from lawsuits, future divorces, and creditors.

    Let Us Set Up Your Entire Plan In The Best Way Possible

    Setting up your life insurance policy with the right beneficiaries involves careful consideration of your unique family dynamics, financial goals, and long-term objectives while being proactive to avoid future issues. By doing so, you maximize the benefits of your life insurance to provide a lasting legacy of financial security and support for your loved ones. 

    But planning for your life insurance is only one step in creating a plan for everything you own and everyone you love today and in the future. My mission is to guide you to create a comprehensive estate plan, which I call a Life & Legacy Plan, that ensures your wishes are fulfilled and your family’s future is protected no matter what the future holds.

    Schedule a complimentary call with my office to learn more.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • From ‘I Do’ to ‘What If’: Estate Planning Must-Do’s for Newlyweds – Part 2

    From ‘I Do’ to ‘What If’: Estate Planning Must-Do’s for Newlyweds – Part 2

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    Getting married and starting a new chapter in your life is an exciting time. It’s also a time that requires a lot of housekeeping such as updating your address if your marriage includes a move, changing your tax filing status with your employer, and adding your new spouse to your bank and credit card accounts. 

    But did you know that creating (or updating) your estate plan should also be on your post-wedding to-do list? 

    Last week we started to explore the key estate planning components every newlywed couple needs to protect their rights, wishes, and plans for their assets now and in the future. This week, we’re continuing the conversation with three more estate planning must-do’s for newlyweds.

    04 | A Living Trust

    Are you surprised to see a trust on our list before a will? Here’s why a trust is next on your to-do list. If you’re newly married, there’s a strong likelihood that you’re relatively young in your life and your career, which means there will be many changes in your assets, family, and wishes as the years go by.

    Or you might be re-marrying or getting married later in life and already have a well-established home, financial portfolio, and family that you’re now combining with your partner’s life. 

    In either situation, you’re in a position of blending your life as a single person with the life and wishes of someone else, and the best way to make sure your wishes for your assets and your new family are honored during your lifetime and after your death is to legally document them through a trust.

    With a will, assets must first pass through a court process known as probate before they can be transferred to your spouse or any other beneficiary. But once probate is completed, your loved ones can do whatever they want with the assets they received from you through your will. The purpose and power of your will ends when probate ends.

    The court probate process required for wills can take months or even years to complete, and can often lead to ugly conflicts between your spouse and other family members. Plus, a will only governs the distribution of assets upon your death that aren’t already covered under your trust or by your beneficiary designations.

    With a trust, no court involvement is needed, and you can set parameters for how you want your assets distributed over a predetermined amount of time. For example, if you have children or plan to, you can ensure the assets are safeguarded in the trust until your children reach a certain age. If you have children from a prior relationship, you can also make sure that your new spouse is financially supported by your assets during their lifetime but that your remaining assets will be returned to your children after your new spouse’s death instead of going to your spouse’s side of the family.

    Having a trust hold your children’s inheritance can also help eliminate conflict between step-siblings and between your children and your spouse. Even if your children are adults, leaving their inheritance in a trust can help avoid family conflict and provide them with a lifetime of asset protection from creditors and lawsuits.

    Finally, using a trust as the main vehicle to distribute your assets during your incapacity and after your death allows you to design a custom plan for what happens to your assets far into the future, ensuring that the goals you have for your loved ones are nourished and that your assets are carefully managed and protected even after you’re gone. You can do this by creating contingencies and incentives in your trust that encourage your heirs to behave in certain ways. For example, for your sibling to receive their inheritance, you could require that they seek drug counseling first, or that your children pursue a course of study before receiving a distribution of income from the trust.

    05 | A Will

    A will allows you to designate who should receive any assets of yours that aren’t already included in your trust or directed by beneficiary designations. Ideally, your trust will include all of your assets. But, if you forget to add an asset to your trust, a will ensures that the forgotten asset is “poured over” into your trust and included under its terms for how you want your assets to be distributed and managed.

    If you don’t have a trust, your will designates who will receive your assets through the court probate process. Your will may also direct any charitable donations you want to make and can be used to create a trust upon your death if the circumstances call for it- such as if one of your heirs is disabled at the time of your death.

    Even if you don’t think you need a will because you don’t have many assets or have other estate planning pieces in place, having a will as a backup or “pour-over” tool is an essential part of your estate plan. Plus, depending on state law and whether or not you have children, your assets may not get divided according to your wishes if you don’t have a will, so it’s always a good idea to create one (or update your old one) when you get married. 

    06 | Legal Guardians for Your Minor Children

    Finally, if either you or your spouse have minor children from a prior relationship, or if you’re planning to have kids of your own soon, it’s crucial that you select and legally document guardians for your children. Guardians are people legally named to care for your children in the event that you or your spouse die or become incapacitated. 

    To make sure your children are never left in the care of strangers for even a minute, it’s crucial to name both long-term and short-term legal guardians for your kids. That way, someone you trust will always have the authority to be with your children during a short-term emergency or a long-term situation.

    Don’t assume that just because you have named godparents or have grandparents living nearby that they will automatically have the authority to care for your children if you can’t. The only way to ensure that your children are cared for by the people you would want is to name guardians in a legal document. Otherwise, you risk creating needless conflict between family members and a potentially long, expensive court process for your loved ones.

    Planning for a Lifetime of Happiness

    If you’re newly married or are planning to be married soon, I wish you true happiness in your marriage and your new life ahead, and I truly want to help you protect the dream and future you are building with your new spouse. With the excitement of your wedding coming to an end, now is the best time to create an estate plan for your new family, and it may even be the most crucial time to create a plan for them. 

    We often think that incapacity and death simply don’t happen to newly married couples, but unfortunately, no one can predict the future. If an illness or tragedy does strike you or your new spouse, the ramifications of not having an estate plan in place can be even worse than for a couple who has been married for a long time.

    No matter the stage of your relationship or marriage, I can help make sure your spouse and family are protected and cared for now and for years to come. Through our Life & Legacy Planning Session process, I’ll guide you from the heart on the estate planning questions and decisions that are essential for your family’s well-being and that feel comfortable to you.

    To learn more about how I can help protect your family’s future, schedule a free 15-minute discovery call today. 

    Here’s to a very happy ever after. 

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Life & Legacy Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • The Special Needs Planning Lesson We Learned From Aretha Franklin’s Estate Battle

    The Special Needs Planning Lesson We Learned From Aretha Franklin’s Estate Battle

    You may have noticed the recent lawsuit between Aretha Franklin’s children to settle her estate, but did you catch the special needs planning element?  

    Aretha Franklin wowed America and the world as the Queen of Soul, but Aretha didn’t wow us with her estate planning. She left two handwritten wills, and the one a jury ruled valid was found stuffed between her couch cushions.

    To settle a dispute over the two wills, two of her sons went to court against a third, and while the two may have declared victory, it’s hard to feel that anyone truly won. An estate initially estimated to be valued at $80 million was whittled down to $4 million by the time the case was concluded, and while some funds were lost unnecessarily to taxes, a large portion was lost to the lawsuit itself.

    But here’s the special needs planning element you may have missed: A fourth son lives in assisted living under a court guardianship, and his guardian settled with the other three brothers out of court.

    While Aretha’s huge estate will be able to support her son with special needs, most parents won’t have a multi-million dollar estate waiting for their children at their deaths. Most parents of children with special needs need to provide financially for their child while being careful not to disqualify them from much-needed government support programs like Medicaid and SSI. Making sure there is a financial plan for your child with special needs is essential in order to supplement the benefits that child can receive from government programs.

    Balancing Support with Program Eligibility

    The goal of special needs planning is to provide continuous, consistent support for an individual with special needs across their lifetime. Aretha earned the money to provide care for her son without the need for careful planning, but most families need to maximize government benefits such as Supplemental Security Income (“SSI”) and Medicaid to care for a child with special needs and provide for the needs not met by government programs.

    Parents who earn Social Security retirement benefits will be able to provide some of that benefit amount to their child with special needs when they pass away, and a child with a disability can work a limited amount, earn his own Social Security benefits, and eventually qualify for Medicare. Many individuals with special needs, however, receive services through Medicaid which Medicare won’t provide such as job coaching, community integration, and day or residential services. 

    But even with these benefits, nobody can live on the maximum SSI payment of $914 per month, and Medicaid eligibility requires individuals to have under $2,000 in assets (with a few exceptions) to qualify. Because of this, parents of children with special needs must find a way to provide financially for their child while being careful not to disqualify their child from these government programs. 

    Careful Planning Preserves Your Assets for The Entire Family

    To preserve your child’s eligibility for government benefits, the money you leave for the care of a child with special needs cannot go to that child directly. Instead, you must direct any gifts or inheritances into special planning vehicles such as a special needs trust for your child’s benefit.

    If you establish this trust during your lifetime, the assets can be used to supplement government benefits throughout your child’s life and any remaining funds are then passed on to other family members when the child with a disability passes away. But if the special needs trust is set up after your death – in the absence of planning – any remaining funds in the trust must be used first to repay the state Medicaid agency that provided the child’s lifetime of care. 

    While Aretha’s son may end up with a special needs trust established by a court, the rest of the family will never see those funds again because the trust was established after Aretha’s death. By law, government programs are entitled to be paid back for the assistance they provide to people with disabilities out of that person’s leftover estate. At Aretha’s death, the inheritance she left her son became part of his estate, so it’s now subject to pay-back collections for his government assistance when he dies.

    If Aretha had created a special needs trust while she was living, the funds in the trust would still be considered part of Aretha’s estate, even after her death. Her son would have been provided for through this trust but his brothers would then inherit the remaining funds when the son with disabilities passes away. 

    Applying these rules to the Franklin family has its limits. The son under a guardianship may be able to afford a lifetime of private pay – if the taxes and lawsuit didn’t diminish his share too greatly. But even Medicaid care rates for an individual with special needs can range from $50,000 to $350,000 per year – not an amount most families can afford.

    This son may not have children of his own who would benefit from receiving any remaining funds after his lifetime, but many individuals with special needs have children for whom these funds could be meaningful. Likewise, siblings and other family members often devote countless unpaid hours to provide support for their loved one with special needs, sometimes at the expense of their own careers and families. Receiving some inheritance after years of caregiving can help alleviate the financial sacrifices these family members made.

    Helping You Protect Your Child and Their Inheritance with Heart-Centered Guidance 

    It’s my mission to help your family live their best life today and plan for the best possible care for your loved ones tomorrow. Whether you have a child with special needs or an adult loved one who develops a disability ten years from now, I can help your family plan for these situations and more while keeping your family out of court and conflict and preserving family wealth.  

    The first step is to go through our unique planning process called a Family Wealth Planning Session to choose the right plan for you, your kids, and everyone you love. During the session, I get to know your family’s unique needs and dynamics as well as your assets. I’ll share how the law would apply to your situation and exactly what would happen to your assets and your loved ones if something happened to you right now.

    Next, we’ll work together to choose the right plan for you based on the specifics of your family situation and the budget you’re comfortable with. Once this foundational estate plan is created, we’ll review what extra tools may be right for your family or loved one with special needs to ensure they’re cared for and protected no matter what happens.

    While Aretha Franklin missed the opportunity to save her family millions of dollars by using special needs planning tools, your own estate planning and special needs planning can preserve your family’s wealth and ensure a lifetime of care for everyone you love.

    To get started, call me at (650) 600-1735 to learn more about my unique process and how I can help you and your child with special needs live your best lives.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Family Wealth Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Family Wealth Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • Help Your Parents Avoid These New Financial Scams – Part 2

    Help Your Parents Avoid These New Financial Scams – Part 2

    In part one of this series, we explored two popular scams that are targeting older adults this year: the grandparent scam and cryptocurrency pickpocketing. In this week’s blog, I’m sharing two more scams that you and your parents need to be aware of, plus tips for staying protected.

    Let’s dive in.

    03 | PERSONALIZED PHISHING EMAILS

    Imagine opening your inbox to an urgent email from a seemingly legitimate source – perhaps your bank, a popular online retailer, or even a social media platform. The message claims there has been suspicious activity on your account and urges you to click a link or provide sensitive information to verify your identity. This is the classic phishing email – a crafty attempt to deceive you into revealing your personal data.

    Phishing has been around since email became mainstream, but what has changed is the depth to which scammers feign legitimacy. Even if you or your parents are familiar with phishing email schemes, new approaches and advances in technology are making it harder than ever to detect a phishing email.

    Same Scammers, New Tricks

    Phishers often pose as trusted entities such as banks, governments, or department stores. But in recent years, phishers have been sending their victims more personalized emails to trick them into thinking the message is from someone the victim personally knows or is personally connected with. The email will address the victim by name and may appear to come from a friend, co-worker, or supervisor. It may even contain a legitimate-looking email domain, signature, or logo.

    The email will usually claim that there is a time-sensitive matter that needs to be addressed, such as a gift that needs to be purchased for a co-worker’s birthday or important client, and asks the victim to purchase the gift via online gift cards, PayPal, or crypto.

    For example, you may see an email that reads:

    “Hi Jim, this is Mr. Boss. I’m going to be in meetings all day today but I need to send a gift to our new client right away. Please purchase a $200 gift card on Amazon and send it to this email address. I will then forward it to our client.” 

    Some phishers will pose as banks, lending agencies, or debt relief programs and claim that you have been approved for special credit or financial assistance. In the aftermath of the COVID-19 pandemic, student loan pause, and hurricane season, you may have seen an email like this:

    “Hi Aaron, it’s Gav with Hardship Relief Program. We tried reaching you at your home and did not hear back… I’m not sure if you’ve spoken to an assigned agent yet, but I do see that you’re pre-approved for our Hardship Program. So, what I’m going to do is keep this in a pending status. Please give me a call between the hours of 8 AM and 10 AM EST to go over the details. My number is 555-886-3424.” 

    Identifying Scams: It’s All In The Details

    Before you respond to any kind of email requesting a phone call, consider whether the sender’s request seems legitimate. Did you actually open an account or fill out an application? Is it normal for your boss to email you about important requests? 

    Always scrutinize the sender’s email address, even if it looks legitimate, by hovering your cursor over the email address to reveal its true origin. Avoid clicking on suspicious links, and never share personal information via email, no matter how professional the sender’s email appears. 

    Check the email and “from address” for typos, and verify the information provided by the sender, such as the company name and phone number, by searching for it online. When in doubt, contact the company directly through official channels to confirm the authenticity of the message.

    04 | THE ONLINE OVERPAYMENT SCAM

    In the world of online buying and selling sites like Etsy, Facebook Marketplace, Poshmark, and Craigslist, scammers are increasing their attacks and their success by preying on the good conscience of other people. 

    In the overpayment scam, the fraudster contacts the victim pretending to be interested in purchasing an item the victim has listed for sale online. The scammer offers to purchase your item, usually at an inflated price and appears to make a payment that’s higher than the agreed-upon amount.

    The scammer then requests that you refund the excess amount they “accidentally” sent, and will usually act panicked, upset, and harried. The scammer may even threaten to report the victim to the police for “stealing” the scammer’s money.

    But here’s where the twist comes in: the overpayment sent by the scammer was actually fake – a fraudulent check or a forged payment confirmation email that made it seem like you received funds when in fact the scammer didn’t send anything at all. When you refund the overpaid amount, you’re essentially giving away your legitimate money, and by the time the scam is realized, the scammer has disappeared into the digital abyss.

    To protect yourself and your parents from this sinister scam:

    • Always require online buyers to pay through traceable means, such as PayPal, Cash App, or Venmo. 
    • Avoid sending and receiving money from strangers through non-refundable money transfer services like Zelle.
    • Never accept more money than the purchase price.
    • If the buyer wants a refund, verify that you actually received the funds by logging into your payment servicer account and checking your balance there. Do not rely on a confirmation email which can be easily faked, especially if your payment account doesn’t show any payment received. 

    Preserving Your Assets and Protecting Your Loved Ones

    Staying on top of constantly changing financial scams can feel overwhelming, but with the right knowledge and tools, you can help keep yourself and your aging parents safe from the financial and emotional harm scams cause. 

    We’re available to help guide a discussion with you and your parents about your financial well-being as part of your estate plan, including how to catalog their assets and how to make it as easy as possible for you to help each other in the case of an emergency or scam attempt.

    If you want to know more about how we can help you and your family, call me today at (650) 600-1735. It would be my honor to look after your family’s plans now and for years to come. 

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Family Wealth Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Family Wealth Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

  • Why “Just a Will” Is Never Enough

    Why “Just a Will” Is Never Enough

    When you think of estate planning, a will is usually the first thing that comes to mind. In fact, most people who contact me tell me they don’t need anything complicated for their estate- just a will. Indeed, wills have a reputation as the number one estate planning tool and can be seen all over TV shows and movies, from the dramatic “reading of the will” (which rarely happens in real life) to characters plotting how best to defraud their billionaire uncle’s will in order to inherit his lavish estate.

    But although wills are a key part of your estate plan – and a big part of the movies – relying on a will alone won’t solve your estate planning needs – no matter what Hollywood says. Instead, using just a will to plan your final wishes is likely to leave your loved ones with an expensive mess that won’t distribute your assets in the way you intended.  

    What’s more, a will alone won’t ensure that you’re taken care of in the event of incapacity, and contrary to what you might think, relying on only a will actually guarantees that your family will need to go to court when you die.

    If you don’t want to leave your family with a mess if something happens to you, it’s important to know how a will works and when it can be used to benefit you and your family. 

    What Exactly Is a Will and How Does it Work?

    A will is a written document that directs how the creator of the will wants their possessions disposed of after their death. The creator of the will is called the testator or testatrix. In your will you can name someone you trust to manage the distribution of your assets, called your personal representative or executor. You can also write out what you want to have happen to your property, what charitable gifts you want to make, and who will receive them.

    A will can be a complex document or a very simple document. You can even write your will on a napkin if you really want to!

    With that said, a will isn’t a legally binding document unless it’s executed according to the laws of the state where you reside. In general, you need to sign your will in front of a witness, and sometimes a notary. 

    Some states have laws that allow you to create a will that isn’t witnessed at all so long as it is handwritten by the testator themselves. But because every state has different laws for the creation of a will, it’s important to consult with an experienced estate planning attorney (like me) to create your will rather than trying to write your own.

    A Will Requires Probate Court

    One of the biggest estate planning myths I hear from clients is the belief that by having a will, their loved ones won’t need to go to court after they die.

    This is sadly the opposite of the truth.

    If you use only a will as your main method of estate planning, you are actually guaranteeing that your loved ones will go to court after you die because a will is required by law to go through the court system called probate before any of your assets can be distributed. In fact, a will is only effective within the probate court.

    Once your will is admitted to the court after your death, your personal representative or executor will be given official authority to move your assets under the court’s supervision. This ensures your property is distributed according to your wishes and that the court can intervene if there are any disputes over who gets what.

    While court oversight can be helpful if there is any confusion or disagreement about your estate, the probate process is long and expensive. For very small estates, the process may take about 6 months, but for most estates, the process can take 12 – 18 months or sometimes even more. 

    Due to the length and complexity of the process, going through probate can easily cost your family tens of thousands of dollars. Some states even require that probate cost a certain percentage of your estate’s value.

    In addition, because probate is a public court proceeding, your will becomes part of the public record upon your death, allowing everyone to see the contents of your estate, who your beneficiaries are, and what they’ll receive. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for scammers to use this information to try to take advantage of young or vulnerable beneficiaries who just inherited money from you.

    A Will Does Not Apply to All of Your Assets or All of Your Needs

    Although movies make it seem like you can and should leave all your property to your loved ones through your will, a will actually only covers certain items of your property, including any property owned solely in your name and any property that doesn’t have a beneficiary designation.

    A will doesn’t cover property co-owned by you with others listed as joint tenants or owned as marital property, meaning you can only give away your share of any property you own with others, not the entire property.

    Any assets that have a beneficiary designation, like retirement accounts or life insurance, aren’t controlled by your will at all but will instead be paid out to the person listed as your beneficiary on each account. Because of this, it’s especially important to make sure your account beneficiaries are up to date.

    In addition, a will has no power until you die, so you can’t use it to give someone you trust the power to make decisions for you if you’re incapacitated due to illness or injury. Even if you named someone in your will to manage your estate or watch over your children, that person will have no authority to do so while you’re alive. 

    Don’t Just Get a Will, Get an Estate Plan

    With all the issues that using a will for estate planning can create, you might be wondering why a will is even used at all. The thing is, a will isn’t the one-and-done solution that most people are led to believe by TV shows and even some lawyers.

    Instead, a will should be used as a piece of your overall estate plan, not as the entire plan itself.  And ideally, your will shouldn’t even need to be used at all. 

    How can that be? Well, an estate plan isn’t just one or two documents – it’s a range of tools and coordinated planning that makes sure everything and everyone you love is taken care of.

    And by using better tools like a trust instead of a will as your main tool for estate planning, you can direct what happens to your property while avoiding probate court entirely and ensuring the people you trust can step in and manage your assets immediately if you become incapacitated because of an illness or injury. 

    In addition, any assets you put in the name of your trust are entirely private, meaning the court and the public will never know what you own or who will inherit it after you’re gone. 

    When using a trust-based estate plan, you’ll still have a will, but your will should only need to serve as a backup and safety net to make sure that any assets that are accidentally left out of your trust at your death are added back into your trust.

    And, even more important than both a will and a trust, is an inventory of your assets so your family knows what you have, where it is, and how to find it when you become incapacitated or die. Without an inventory of your assets, your family will be literally lost when something happens to you. A comprehensive inventory updated throughout your lifetime is a critical, and often overlooked, piece of an estate plan that is not “just a will.”

    If you’re ready to see how having an estate plan for your family is different than having “just a will,” schedule your Family Wealth Planning Session today. During the session, we’ll review an inventory of everything you have and everyone you love, and together look at what would happen to your possessions and loved ones when something does happen. Then I’ll help you develop a plan to make sure your loved ones are taken care of when you can’t be there and that your plan works for you, and for them, exactly as you want it – at your budget and within your desires. 

    Most importantly, I don’t just create documents. I guide you and your family through every step of the process, now and at the time of your passing. I even help all of my clients pass on something more valuable than their money – their values, stories, and wisdom – through a Family Legacy Interview.

    To get clear on what you really do need for yourself and the people you love, call (650) 600-1735 so you can get on the road to your Family Wealth Planning Session today.

    This article is a service of Jeannette Marsala, Personal Family Lawyer. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That’s why we offer a Family Wealth Planning Session, during which you’ll get more financially organized than you’ve ever been before and make all the best choices for the people you love. You can begin by calling our office today to schedule a Family Wealth Planning Session and mention this article to find out how to get this $750 session at no charge.

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